am i wrong to be upset?

[Dani_Ziggy]

OK so here's the back ground info.....due to a...complication only discovered since we foundout I was pregnant, my fiance Andorra are able to have sex for at least a month for medical reasons. I just found out he has been sneaking around behind my back downloading and watching porn when I'm not him or not paying attention. Now do to our lack of intimacy. I realty don't care that he wants porn its the fact that he's doing it behind my back and basically luring about what he does when I leave him alone. Am I wrong to be upset or is it justified? I can't really talk to him about it or he will be upset and it will just start another fight.

[Sydneylilyrose]

Maybe he's embarrassed about it??

[laylo_seeds]

I wouldn't be to upset. Letting your significant other know you watch porn is kind of embarrassing lol. I don't want to know when my bf watches porn. All guys do it, single, taken, married. And almost all of them lie about it lol. Now mine will announce what he just got done doing to the world if he so pleases...trust me..its better when they hide it lol

[Linny5511]

Hmm i completely understand. I don't mind my hubby watching porn, but i would be upset if he hid it from me. But i wouldn't beat myself or him up about it. Cause if you step back and look at it, he may not know how to tell you, he might feel a little embarrassed or doesn't know how you would feel and doesn't want to hurt you or make you feel "less" cause of the situation you are in. I mean yes. I would be upset. But i would calmly let him know you are aware of it okay with it but dont like the sneak of it. Maybe offer to watch it with him or be intimate in other ways just to help him or even yourself feel more comfortable. If that makes sense.

[Dani_Ziggy]

I only mind because he was hiding it...and he can't go out and cheat because that could pose a risk to her health too....this is a shared medical complication that we were UN aware of if u catch my drift....so he wouldn't cheat and risk passing it on...

[auntie4life]

I personally wouldn't care.  At least he is choosing to watch porn and not going out with other women doing things. My man watches porn and it doesn't bother me at all I am 25 weeks and can't give him sex as much as he wants so it doesn't worry or bother me.  I didn't know for a while about it but when I found out I didnt care.

[sadies93]

Honestly id be upset just for him watching porn. You are in the same boat as him and if you can go with out, then why cant he?
I think you are justified in being upset.

[Dani_Ziggy]

*and I are not......not Andorra are....sorry I'm on a cell phone...I got auto corrected

[brit0585]

I think he should be honest with you. I would be mad if my husband was watching it. I am 37 weeks pregnant and we havent had sex in a month because it hurts me... But you can still be intimate in other ways. There is nothing wrong with you asking him to be honest with you about it. As long as you approach him the right way about it and dont sound mad or angry. Even though you are upset he was lying to you about it. Just tell him that you understand his needs but that you need him to be honest and up front and not lie to you.