can some one help plz

[quany123]

Hi I have a friend she's only 18 years old she's been with her boyfriend for a year now. Through out the year they had a lot of sex.A LOT!! In the starting of the relationship he used condoms but he stop. He gave a std.n still they neveR ise a condom.plenty of times after sex she would take the morning after. For the first 2 months she took it over ten times. Just in may she got pregnant. N l2 weeks ago she had an abortion. She was on the pills before she got pregnant but she stopped. Now last week she went and had sex. Un protected sex, n now she can't eat n all she been doing is puking.after the abortion she only bleed for a couple days. Now she thinks she might be pregnant again. Can some one plz tell me what u think

[meagannlaw]

if your friend is "mature" enough to be having sex then ahe should take on the responsibilities of being pregnant

[meagannlaw]

if your friend is "mature" enough to be having sex then ahe should take on the responsibilities of being pregnant

[Clysta]

Actually it's only meant to be used 2x a year max. I agree with the others, your "friend" is highly irresponsible and needs to get her priorities straight. Abortion isn't the answer, and unless she's hoping to be a teenage mother she needs to get on some form of protection, as well as to avoid disease---even though you already said she got one from him.

What she does now WILL affect her for the rest of her life. Sex isn't about pleasure or fun. It's dangerous if you're irresponsible, and while it may seem fun now, she can destroy her life before she ever actually lives it.

[megan210792]

I agree with claire5522 Ur friend is being very irresponsible I'm only 19 myself and i have a little girl and I'm 19 weeks pregnant. The morning after pill is only suppose to be taken 5 times in a year as I think it can cause problems. If she doesn want a baby tell her to stop being stupid and go on some type of contraception. I also hope she isnt pregnant and tell her if she keeps takin the morning after pill it can cause infertility in the future

[claire5522]

You're friend sounds very irresponsible and immature.  To not want a child and have an abortion and then be so horribly irresponsible to put herself in the same situation again......

The morning after pill is not a form of contraception, either is having abortions they both put a lot of medical stress on a women's body and should not be abused.  I believe in a women's right to choose but its stupidity like she is displaying that makes me re-think my point of view.  It's sickening.

I hope she is not pregnant and tell her to wise up and start considering the actions that will arise from the decisions she makes.