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horrible people make me sad...rant

hi ladies im very upset yesterday I decided to take a day trip2london with my hubby n 15wk old girlies while feeding her a bottle I mentioned to my hubby that I wasnt going to do my workout when some 65yr old says if u had done mothers instinict n breast feed then you would lose the weight...ruining my day...n if she had known my she would of know I did breast feed bur my dad got locked up for bein suicidal n may become homeless after my mother left him which the stress stopped my breast producing milk whoch I was totally guited by n felt like a crap mum already as for the weight ive always been obsessed so thx nasty lady rant over sorry girls needed a moan xx
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We are very excited to be enlarging the family. My son is 3 and very excited for his lil brother but 9 months of waiting for a 3 year old is like eternity! I wish you all the best and if u ever need to chat feel free to message me:)
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true sayv true say u excited hw olds ur little man hw u must b well excited to enlarge ur family nt long nwbu thought of a name yet n yer poppys my onlyperfect little poppy xx
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I know what u mean i used to always care about what others thought but i just stopped caring one day and its been the best thing for me. Ppl are going to b rude its human nature so dont let it bother you! Im due sept 14 with another boy:) is this your first?
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good for u I wlways care bout wat others think way to , much lol n glad im nt the only1it happened2its heart breakin ay...when r u due xx
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Dont take it personally hun. My milk never fully came in and dried up completely before my son was 4 weeks old. I always had ppl questioning why i didnt breastfeed and i just ignored them. Im preggo again and hoping i can breastfeed this time but if not im not gonna worry about ppl who are over opinionated about everyrhing. My son is 3 healthy as can be abd we have a great bond together. Hold your head up high abd kbow your a great mom doing whats best for your child!
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lol I know cnt bloodt win ay I used to hide n the toilet ...stinky toilet for awhile wen I breat then thought **** it my own mother in law tired to send me upsrair to feed in my own house...n thrn wen I had to go to bottle she moaned that she feed to often cnt win lol xx
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Its ok ppl saying breast is best but my god so many ppl moan n scowl when you flop out a boob for anything other than page 3 or an eyefull for the random pervs needing a cheap thrill !!! Even old women can tolerate page 3 or a boob moment on Tele, but drop one out to feed a baby n ppl want you out the cafe, out the restaurant, off the bus etc etc... And then the women evil eye you cos their man dared to glance!!! I deliberately breastfeed publicly just to make a stand!!! Lol x
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aww nt long then do u know wat yiur having at all my niece or nethew is due around that time ;) n alway thought that if u cn if u cnt u cnt xx
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I'm pregnant with my first, a baby girl, due August 20th! I plan on breast feeding but also know that sometimes for one reason or another it just doesn't always work.  
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aww thankies it was the hardest thing ever n I did love breast feedin wat really annoyed me was a could of been one off the unfortnant women that never could breast feed it was infront of a cafe too then when I told her due to stress my breast stopped workin she has the cheek to say ive never heaed that n I was onlu tryin to be nice!!! how lol so r u pregnant or u got a little 1 ?? xx
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I'm so sorry that someone would feel that they have the right to talk to you like that.  Don't ever feel like a horrible mom, you are an amazing mom weather you breast fed 1 day 1 week or not at all. You are feeding your baby and that us all that matters. People bed to quit judging and be supportive, I can not imagine how hard all of your family stuff was on you, but you are staying strong and taking care of your a family, you go momma!!!!!!
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