i have an appointment with specialist 2morrow, what can i say 2 make them understand what im feeling

[sheleby]

after going thro 2 miscarriges in 5 months after taking me so long 2 get pregnant, this is my 2nd appointment i have with the specialist, im being told different stories and after seeing them last year they told me i would be pregnant this year, thats false hope 4 a start!!! nothing has happened since i lost last november. now i have an appointment 2morrow and i need 2 get it thro 2 them that i feel something is wrong, in both my losses i never had a d/c or had a checking over 2 make sure everything is ok. im always so late on my period every month last month i was 20 days late. they rang me 2day and said they had a cancelation and could i make it 2morrow. of course i jumped at the chance. but i just have so much 2 say and dont know how 2 say it all. someone help as i feel im never gonna b a mum and theres sumthing wrong with me.

[karmaghia]

I would write down all your questions for the doc.  They are getting paid for the service.  I have worked in the medical field for 20 years.  You are paying him or her for your time.  make sure they answer all your questions and give you an answer you understand.  If you dont understand ask them to explain it again.  Make sure you and the doc have a plan of action.  Take your time.  They are good at ening an appointment.  Stick to your list!  Remember you are paying them.  If you are not comfotable with the results by all means see another doc.  I had eight surgeries, a miscaraige and the three healthly children.  There is always hope.  You have to find a doc that has that hope with you! Good Luck!

[trying43]

Write everything down that u want them to know so u don't forget.  Sometimes u have to be forceful when speakingI with the drs to get them to listen.  Good luck