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miscarriage :(

Its finally been confirmed... I was hoping the drs were wrong but I guess not :( how long should I wait before I try again?
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I know how you feel I am just 19 years old and ive misscarried 4 times, but all at different times.. I had 1 d&c because the pregnancy was a multiple pregnancy and my cervix refused to open naturally.. its difficult dont I no it. Everytime I had.a scan a heart was never found.. but I have determination to bring up a healthy baby im now 8 weeks along again and hoping for a good turn out.. I no I shouldn't worry about chilldren at my age but its the only thing that makes me feel complete everyone is different I recommend to wait 3 periods and start trying then so your body is ready .I am also so sorrry for your loss just remember it might not be the right time.. my love goes to you! Get better soon x
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Srry for your loss
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Sorry for your loss
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Im so sorry. :(
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How far along were you... I am so sorry I have been there before.. I miscarried my first pregnancy at seven weeks. You are in my prayers. The farther along you were the longer you should wait is what my mother told me. She miscarried twins..
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I had a misscarraige July 8th, I got a d&c done just because I requested it. But I am now pregnant again and I'm about 5 weeks, my first ultrasound is Oct. 8th. Don't get to discouraged its hard but you can get through it.
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I'm so sorry. <3 I miscarried about 2 years ago. I will be praying for you and your man. My husband still won't talk about it. But I am now 17 weeks with a healthy baby girl. Keep your head up and don't let fear get the best of you. God has a plan!
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8069122 tn?1407171566
I would honestly recommend a d&c it's definitely not as hard as passing the baby naturally you go into the hospital they hook up an iv put you to sleep and take baby out and it's over you never have to see anything I'm so sorry for your loss I've also had a miscarriage got pregnant 6 months later and now 32 weeks so there is definitely hope once you try again!
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9138366 tn?1410253633
Sorry:( stay strong
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I was thinking of trying right after but idk if my fiance wants to he's so devastated I think he might be scared if it happening a second time
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9924471 tn?1419954420
So sorry for your loss love :( ive heard you can try after
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Thank you everyone <3
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I'm so sorry for your loss mommy! Hang in there ❤️❤️❤️ Praying for you!
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I'm so sorry for your lost
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Im so sorry.  Don't give up.
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Its definitely gonna take me some time to completely miscarry... Its been a slow process... But my hcg levels have dropped significantly... What does a d&c consist of if you don't mind me asking?
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9498641 tn?1411576331
I'm so sorry . I feel you're pain. Just know it's okay to feel sad , angry at the world and so much more . I miscarried in January and tried again in may. I'm now almost 19 weeks . My doctor told me to wait 4 periods . Then again , everyone is different . I had to wait 4 periods because I had a d&c performed since the baby didn't naturally pass., it was just slowly shrinking. It's up to you when you want to start.  Sorry again
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I just worried I don't want to try then it happen again...
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I'm so sorry to hear this
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10270693 tn?1412131615
I'm so sorry darling :(
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9142665 tn?1406075655
So sorry to hear about your loss..physically you can try anytime.. all depends on when your mentally ready
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4-8 weeks and don't fret sometimes there is just a genetic anomoly that causes a sperm to fertilize an egg but not form a baby 80% of miscarriages are caused by this and it will jot hinder your conception rate next time
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