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Ok so i am 7weeks pregnant...all me and my bf do is argue all the time now. i love him very much...but i don't know if i can trust him...the other day after he got off work he went to his xs house and stayed there for like 3 hours...mind u i had dinner and movie ready for him for when he got home but he never showed up...until late that night...he would not answer my calls or texts...they do have a 2 year old together and he says he was spending time with him..i just don't know what to do...:( he has been known to go back to her...i don't know if maybe i am over thinking or what....please give me some advice on what to do...should i trust him??
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Omg i hate this auto correct sorry guys....lol just  noticed
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Thanks u all...the thing of it is he gas gave Mr reasons not to trust him...i did talk to him about it and get said it was bull that he can't even spend time with his son.....i told him iy would be other story if he could at least text or answer when i call...but honestly i don't think it will ever work out so i am telling him today we are over....i don't want to but i don't want to be hurt any more...
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i went through the same thing 5 yrs ago...he was cheating on me but i wasnt dumb enough to not know....i kicked him to the curb...since then he had another kid (makes 5 for him with 4 diff women...4 of them within less than 2 yrs) but he married his first baby mama (the one he cheated on every girl with)...he tried begging me to take him back...ummm no way....im now married to a wonderful man who loves all my kids n we have a baby coming in nov....
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N if he can't give you a good reason for his actions n why he can't answer a simple text then you might want to reconsider your relationship.
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I would try to trust him unless he's given you reasons before not to. Unfortunately I don't know him so I can't say much BUT I'm also pregnant and my bf that i live with shares custody with his ex over their now 7 year old and I can tell you that there has never once since we've been together has there been a time where he didn't answer my calls or text msgs when he was over at his exs house. Especially since ive been pregnant. And his ex is CRAZY!!!! And thinks she has a say in his life and she has more meaning in his life than I do. Flat out you should talk to him and don't let the hormones take control either,don't jump to conclusions because that will make it worst.
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Hell ****** no u shouldnt trust him cause first of all he wont answer your call or your text if he spending time with his kid then he should be able to answer his cell phone unless he hiding something from u or he doing something else that he cant answer the phone
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