oral sex bad around ovulation

[krissyy]

hey girlies, guess what i just read!!!!....that oral sex around ovulation may be harmful to the sperm!  it said that there is bacteria in saliva that may be very harmful to the little spermies...  just a little tip for you...one that i've never heard before!  i'm kind of sad about it...  has anyone else ever heard this?  i thought it was good because orgasms make a more alkaline environment which is comfortable to the sperm.  i guess it's best to orgasm through intercourse rather than oral sex around baby making time.  ****baby dust to all!!!!****

[beautifullychaotic]

yeah I hear you there on having others to talk to.   My fiance thinks I am crazy too!  Thats why I have you guys! haha

[maybrie]

I like doing it that way much better It was a little weird at first but once I explained it to my dh he's totally on board. It's much more fun when both parties are comfortable to do whatever it takes...lol

[krissyy]

i find this board to be a great support!  we are not telling family/friends that we are ttc so having others to talk to about it and learn from has been amazing :-)  and there is only so much that my hubby can add to the conversation involving our baby making journey (he thinks i am far too obsessed and doesn't understand how tricky it actually is).  baby dust to all!!!

[krissyy]

ah, gotcha!  i've been doing keegals after sex to suck them up but i like your idea better ;-)

[beautifullychaotic]

I have been glued to this for 2 weeks or so....everyone here is pretty nice and helpful as possible! Welcome Aboard!

[maybrie]

It's always btter to orgasm after dh so that when ur uterus contracts it can suck up all the spermies.
So after dh is done have him hook u up..lol

[rlynch7806]

Thank you for the help!   Now that I know this site exists I'm sure I'll be glued to it until my BFP!!

[mamaofonetrying42]

TWW is  two week wait

[mamaofonetrying42]

Here are some more if you dont know....

AF is aunt flow. BD is baby dance(sex). M/C is miscarrage. U/S is ultrasound. Hb is hubby. BFN or BFP is big fat neg or pos.

[rlynch7806]

Wow...should have been able to figure that one out...geeze!

[mamaofonetrying42]

trying to covnceive

[rlynch7806]

Hi all...I am a first time visitor and had a question....what does ttc stand for?

[rlynch7806]

Hi all...I am a first time visitor and had a question....what does ttc stand for?

[rlynch7806]

Hi all...I am a first time visitor and had a question....what does ttc stand for?

[beautifullychaotic]

I'm not sure if I am or not. I feel like I am. I am 4 days late.  But I have been testing for a week now and BFN all over! I have symptoms and all...but I am  trying to wait patiently.  I have 2 children already you'd think I would know by now how to tell and all that.  lol But thats been like 5 yrs ago. haha Another thing that I realized to and that I DO remember about finding out I was pregnant with the other kids was that I dint acutally test until I was already 5 weeks.  I think I just never got it and it dawned on me...DUH take as test. haha And plus back then I wasnt exactly TRYING to get preggers. AND I never kept track of my AFs.  Well good luck to you.  ~~Baby Dust~~....

[krissyy]

yep, we are in our 3rd cycle ttc.  are you?  or have you already been touched by the baby dust?? :)  i am so impatient!  this will be our first.  

[beautifullychaotic]

No I never heard of it...but it makes sense.  Sounds about right.  Are you ttc?