pregnancy pics.

[Cyn_henderson]

So 4 months into my pregnancy I had posted on my Facebook that I will not post a picture of my belly. People were asking constantly. An it got worse these last few weeks. I'm now seven months. So me annoyed I posted, "4 months into my pregnancy I posted that I will not post a picture of my belly. I don't care if you're my husband asking me to post a picture or even the president. Please stop asking me cause my answer will not change. To me that is a private special type of deal. Please respect my wishes." I think I said that in the nicest way I possibly could. I am very blunt so it's a little bit harder for me to actually watch what I say. But I'm not comfortable posting a picture like that. To me it's a special private thing. An my husband is fine with that. We agreed we're going to take a glamour shot together an keep it private. But I got called a heartless "B" for posting what I posted. An apparently I'm being rude an inconsiderate? Am I wrong?

[Cyn_henderson]

Thank you so much!

[Shirano]

I thought you were very tactful in your wording. It's not heartless to not want to show your bump to the world. Some people are very nosey. They think that pregnancy is for everyone who knows the pregnant person and they have no boundaries.

[Cyn_henderson]

Yeah I see most of my family an friends on the weekends. But even the people I see all the time bug me about it.

[firstbabysosa]

If they want to see your belly they could see you in person couldn't they? Sometimes people aren't that close to people they are friends with on facebook. And pregnancy is very personal, I don't think you sounded rude at all

[Cyn_henderson]

Thank you (:

[1sttimmommy]

I personally love taking pics of my belly and showing it to my friends and family on Facebook. we dont live in the same state and have not been present through out my pregnancy. that's how they see how big im getting. and i just love showing my baby bump  lol. its your chose to post pics or not and whoever called you a b*tch is dumb dont pay any attention to them its your body. Good luck on your pregnancy :)

[Cyn_henderson]

I don't get how someone could call me a heartless "b" for not wanting to post a picture though

[peaches421]

I dnt think ur being rude. I did the same thing except I didnt tell anyone on fb. I only told my true friends n family they respected my wishes. Ppl need to get over themselves...

[soon2bmamma]

I'm not going to be posting a belly pic, if people want to see how big I get they can see me in person and look at my shirt ...

[Cyn_henderson]

Haha thank you

[maybaby19]

Lol I also post every week or two, but ive only posted one with my shirt up. I think thats pushing it lol. I dont think it was rude at all though, I know a bunch of girls that would post them either...let it roll off your back girl :)

[Cyn_henderson]

Lol that's funny. Thank you

[baby2_on_the_way]

I post pics of my belly like once a week lol I don't mind, and love hearing all the congrats every time:-)  but I don't think its rude at all, it is personal and not everyone is comfortable with it, heck my bf hates that I do cause even when its just my big belly he thinks others will look at me sexually lol.

[duedatefeb18th]

I personally dont mind. They juss wanna see the growth of your belly. I dont mind sharing

[Cyn_henderson]

Thanks KTowne(:

[KTowne]

I don't think you were rude at all.

[Cyn_henderson]

Thank you (: I just believe it's a personal thing. Well for me that is. I'm wondering if I came off rude though?

[isha69]

I'm pretty open and happy about my pregnancy, but I've only posted the ultrasound picture on facebook so my family could see my baby.
I'm not sure what stand point I'll have on posting belly pics, but whatever you decide is what you decide.

[Cyn_henderson]

Lol thanks ladies...just not something I want tk share.

[sickmamma92]

I am the same way.  Only person who gets belly pics is their dad and that's because I had to go a while without seeing him.  I post pictures of the babies but not of my belly.   I am like I didn't show my belly before why show it now? You aren't looking at the babies you're looking at MY belly lol.  It's personal.   I don't think you we're being rude in any way.  :)

[KTowne]

I don't feel comfortable with it either, it's no one's business what your growing stomach looks like, weirdos!

[LisaDerr]

People are so weird sometimes...pregnant or not its still your body. There was nothing rude about your comment...you go girl!

[alissahann18]

I thinks it your choice and they need to lay off.