preventing to develop zygote pls help

Question

i was 3 weeks pregnant can u help me how to remove or prevent to develop the baby?

Emily_MHManager · Accepted Answer

Ladies,

This forum is for everyone who has a pregnancy-related issue, and sometimes, abortion is a part of that.

We are not asking anyone to agree, or support the decision to abort if you are against abortion, but we are asking that you refrain from comment if you can not offer support.  MedHelp is a safe and supportive site for everyone, and should remain a judgment-free zone as often as possible.  Let's remember that we don't know her circumstances - she may have been raped, be in an abusive relationship, etc.  Yes, she could have forgotten birth control (if she has access to it), but we just don't know.

This community can cover fertility and TTC issues, but we also have a Fertility Community and a Miscarriage Community members can visit if even the possibility of an abortion thread is too much to take in right now.

Best wishes to all of you,

Emily

SunWorshiper_26 · Answer

Best of luck!  Keep in touch with us and if you ever have questions post as a new question. We are happy to help :)

loveandbeauty019 · Answer

♥ Thank you so much for the advices and help . I'm glad that there is a forum like this. For now i am waiting for my passport and hoping that i can stay in japan even i am pregnant :)

jschoch8 · Answer

I'm so happy you decided to keep your baby. I pray the best for you, and even through the hard times this baby will truly be the light of your life. To a happy healthy nine months.

SunWorshiper_26 · Answer

It doesn't seem that you would be deported but here is a website where you can ask: http://www.wfacjapan.com/faq.html

SunWorshiper_26 · Answer

I am so very sorry you of course can ask questions in this forum please don't listen to those who said to delete your post, you have every right to ask questions here and I hope you feel welcome to. Welcome to our forum, this group of women helped answer all of my questions while I was pregnant I hope we can all do the same for you and provide you with the support and encouragement through your pregnancy. I am not sure the policy in Japan but I will look it up and see if I can find anything on that. You are a very strong person and you should be so very proud that you are keeping your baby. My little girl is 3 weeks old now and I never knew being a mommy would be as amazing as it is. It's by far the best job!  

Great idea to go stay with your mother. Having someone to help support you through your pregnancy is a wonderful idea. I wish you all the best. If you have other questions please feel free to post here you can also message me or leave me a note :)

Welcome to the forum and congratulations on your pregnancy

loveandbeauty019 · Answer

♥ Now i decided not to abort the baby. But can i ask again does anyone knows the policy in japan that once you are pregnant you will be deport in there country?is that true? i have no husband. :( but i have to go in japan to stay there with my mother. Hope guys u understand my situation.

loveandbeauty019 · Answer

i'm sorry guys Idk where can i post this question. and i thought i can ask in this forum., but thanks to emily and other for their opinion., How can i delete this post?. and where should i post this question?..,

Leyisel21 · Answer

I agree with emily... Shes not asking for opinions, i just think she posted the wrong question in the wrong forum. Good luck to every one.

JoyRenee · Answer

She is in the Philippines; it is illegal to have abortions there. There is no Planned Parenthood. Which is why self-abortion makes this post very worrisome and scary for the life and well-being of the woman asking this question.

mzphillips · Answer

I would like to say that i am pro choice and abortion is not a form of birth control how ever if u choose to use it as one u may have conserquenes... Trust me i had an abortion in my teens and am now in my mid 20s and my husband and i have been ttc for 3 years now! Just look at ur options through!! U dnt want to be me when u decide to start a family. I wouldnt wish this heart ach on anyone!

Fgfs · Answer

Call your local planned parenthood. If there is not one near you look up their website.

JoyRenee · Answer

Thank you, Emily. I was about to post something similar.

To the original poster- self abortion is not only scary but can threaten your life. To prevent pregnancy abstain from sex or use protection. If you are pregnant and do not wish to be pregnant I hope you can find that adoption is a very good option and that you can give a couple who can't have a baby the chance of a lifetime. Good luck to you!

julianovak · Answer

Talk to a doctor. You cant stop a baby from developing. Think before you act.

jschoch8 · Answer

You can't prevent your baby from developing, it already is developing. If you have been pregnant for 3 weeks your babys heart is already beating. You really need to think about what you are asking.

popsmommy · Answer

THIS IS WHERE I DRAW MY BRAKES......................i do not support abortion.

sgt6852wife · Answer

Let me clairfy...I'm not implying that you have had repeated abortions, but if you don't get on/use some sort of birth control this will more than likely happen again. I wish you the best of luck and remember what you do to your body now could affect your future plans for children.

sgt6852wife · Answer

I agree, talk to a doctor. Although, I am prochoice...it would never be the choice for me. (I am not trying to start a debate, just my opinion) Please get on/use some form of birth control, repeated abortions ARE NOT a form of birth control.

Clysta · Answer

I agree. I think where you live abortion is illegal, but self aborting can kill the mother in the process and I doubt anyone will tell you how to terminate. Unfortunately pregnancy is the consequence of sex (as sex is NOT for pleasure and is for reproduction purposes) and if you made the choice for unprotected sex, then you need to take responsibility for it.

kellibubba · Answer

I believe this is a place where we give advice to those who are pregnant and planning on allowing that pregnancy to full trem. Many women in here are very sensitive about the subject of abortion as many are trying very hard to either fall pregnant or prevent miscarriage. This is not a place to ask someone how to preform an abortion and it would be wise for you to delete this post.

If you are wishing an abortion speak to a doctor and get counceling!!