How do you confront someone in a nice way? Today at church my foster brother came up to n asked me where i got my boobs from. It caught me off guard n it creep me out. I didnt know what to say. His mom was sitting right next to me so i don't know if she heard him. Its very nasty i view him like a brother even if he isnt a blood relative. I wish he would stop this isnt the first time he asked me something like that