sex

[twinboyss2015]

I know it's okay to still have sex unless your doctor says otherwise... but it's causing a huge conflict between me and my bf. We been together almost 6 years on and off and he has always been extremely sexually active. He could seriously have sex everyday 3x a day. It's always been hard for us because I'm good with it 3x a week lol. I try to make him happy tho. Last pregnancy we had sex til the day that I gave birth and even before my 6 week check up although it hurt like hell. I'm now 33w5d pregnant with twins and I can't do it anymore. I made him wait 6 days before I finally gave in last night and it was such a mistake. I literally had the worst bh and was up all night crying. I'm done having sex, but other things make me feel sick lol.
It's causing a strain on our relationship. Has this happened to anyone else before? It's literally so painful I can't handle it but I don't wanna make him wait 4 months either. I'm stuck lol

[babyalexa15]

Patriciaaa02 same here I wish my bf was the same he works a lot and he is most times tired I really do understand him bcuz I see how much he works so for him twice a week its fine or even one I wish he would want more often

[Patriciaaa02]

I'm 32 weeks turning 33 weeks this week my first 3-4 months I had no sex drive at all but now that I do he doesn't sometimes I think it's bc of my belly and the doctor told us the baby is head down so he thinks he's bothering her lol

[twinboyss2015]

Wow that sounds like u have a really good husband. This might sound bad but my boyfriend would have never done what he did. U should consider yourself lucky :)
It feels good to know that I'm not the only one going through this though.

[dree4224]

I'm in the same page. I'm currently 38+2 and my husband has a high sex drive. But me on the other hand not the same way. We have had sex maybe 3-4 times throughout my whole pregnancy.  I feel bad because you know I'm leaving him hanging with nothing. But I just don't want to be touched or anything. Plus I feel uncomfortable since my baby is super low.

[twinboyss2015]

How far along are u guys? Yeah I'm at the doc right now for an ultrasound so we will see if they have grown much since last week or if they are any lower. That's prolly the reason it hurts so bad. I mean usually it is uncomfortable and I get bh afterwards but nothing like last night. I wanted to just die! (Not literally lmao) and now my stomach and back are still in pain. I try to please him orally but I have no sex drive whatsoever and it makes me sick aha. I can't do it nearly like I can not pregnant. I had a high sex drive a few months ago but now I have none :(

[Patriciaaa02]

I wishhhh my bf wanted to have sex 3 times a day lol he's good with like twice a week I hate it !!  He works a lot so I try to be understandable but I hate it cause my sex drive is soooo high right now and his isn't

[florcarolina]

Same with me, i love having sex i can do it everyday but lately since baby is low its uncomfortable and it makes my belly hurt, so ive been keeping him happy in other ways orally lol but yesterday he and me too we wanted to have sex but omg it hurted so badly it just felt to sensitive down there and i got the worst backpain. I guess its just until we give birth and wait for postpartum rest so our body can go back to normal