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5549456 tn?1371052925

single mom

So I found out last night for sure that my husband is and always will be a cheater. He's been cheating on me ever since we first started dating and he hasn't slowed down. He slipped out of the house last night while he thought I was asleep.  I assumed he went to the store to get some beer or something.  30mins go by and he's still gone. I have his fb password he doesn't know it. Hes really simple it wasn't hard to find out at all. And he's talking to he's find saying he's  about to come over lets go to the club I'm trying to get crazy tonight. I don't know if its just me but I feel like if your married you should nt even go to the club unless your spouse is there. Idk its  just disrespectful and there's to much temptation. Its a place for single ppl. Well me being hormonal pregnant crazy wife that I am. Call my friend up and we drive to the first club we think their at and sure enough I see our truck. I'm fuming. I sit in the parking lot wait for them to come out. I confront him and they both look scared I pick up his hand and his ring is off!!!!! Later found out that he'd been sneaking off to the club like every night while I was sleep grinding and kissing on girls. When I was out of town  for a week to go to my cousins graduation and was running the streets. And he's been having sex with different girls. I'm so done. I packed my stuff that night and now I'm at my moms. Part of me is sad and another part of me feels relieved to be out of the abusive relationship. I never saw my self being a single mom but this is what I have to do. He even started questioning whether this baby is his and start throwing my stuff out of the house because HE got caught -_- So done
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I agree wiv storyofjesi I been through the same **** n im sure ul feel happy sooner than u think hun :) that **** don't deserve u. Hate so much blokes like him hel be ****** sorry ! Stay strong hun n dont let him get back to ur life xxx
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I agree wiv storyofjesi I been through the same **** n im sure ul feel happy sooner than u think hun :) that **** don't deserve u. Hate so much blokes like him hel be ****** sorry ! Stay strong hun n dont let him get back to ur life xxx
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5549456 tn?1371052925
Thank you ladies so much for your kind words. Theres no way in hell I'm ever going back to that *** hole. I already feel like this weight has been lifted off my shoulders. And my mom is being great I kind of feel like a failure for having to come back home but she seems to be happy to have me back. I will just never understand why people in relationships cheat. Why even be in a relationship or be married if you going to do this ****. Then they wouldn't have to worry about being caught or anything. Or waste the other persons time. It just doesn't make sense.
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4749018 tn?1372359546
Sorry your going through that I"m just recently single!!! I found out the same but not married.. just something similar to that. anyways I hope you are a strong woman. good luck and congrats.
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I went through pretty much the same situation a few months ago. It's sad at first but soon you'll see it's best for you and you little miracle. You're so strong! Keep doing what makes you happy you deserve to enjoy your pregnancy and be with someone who will stick by your side, love you, and who will continually be faithful to you and your baby. Praying for you!
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5603486 tn?1372218164
Thats really crazy Glad you got out of there... Im sure thats tough to deal with especially being pregnant... You will be just fine without him you don't want to be with a man who don't appreciate you especially when you're carrying HIS baby... I'm sorry that you're going through that...
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I'm sorry girl. My husband has cheated on me and I have a hard time trusting him. I left him for a while but we got back together. Sometimes I think I should've stayed gone. Good for you for leaving stick to your guns and don't let him bullsh*t you back.
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5002615 tn?1366014009
That good for you he will regret what you have done and gave him.
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IM sorry your going thru this..he will be apologizing but stand your ground cause wat goes around comes around be strong you and your baby will be fine
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5239193 tn?1366982279
I am sorry your going through that! That's gotta be so hard. You and your baby deserve so much better! Just keep your head up and stay strong momma!
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5631686 tn?1371322888
I am so sorry you had to go through that!  I am also proud of you for leaving. That just proves you will be a great mom, because you aren't afraid to do what you know is right. :)
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4476664 tn?1361632949
That ***** but.... GOOD FOR YOU MAMA!!! That's TOTALLY wrong and your much better without that nonsense. Be strong dear..you can do it. Of course he's going to be an *** because he's been made!!! Happy to hear you left and are going to keep looking forward.
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Sorry you have to go through that. I  glad you have your mom.
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