single&pregnant

Question

Any other mommies single& pregnant &feeling alone ? i mean you see so many posts ahout woman& they hubbys and how they appreciate their hubby so much i cant help but feel alone & a bit jealous :/

GinaTatyana · Answer

Welp I was w/ my bd 7 yrs we had 2 faild pregnancys he cheatd got sum one else pregnant ... comes back now im pregnant . He stayd a month wth me she goes onto labor he named her baby a jr after him n has been livin w/ her since witch is goin on 2 months now she told him if he talks to me he cant c the baby so we dont speak ohhh n he denies our baby

oxmbeav · Answer

i was single with my second pregnancy bt nvr did i feel bad or alone, my daughter's dad was a waste of space honestly and i wasnt going to raise him too. i broke up with him when i was 2mnths and havent looked back, my bf im with now takes my daughters as his and loves the lil family we have. some guys arent worth feeling sad ovr jst be happy that you wnt have to share your baby its awesome

britt423 · Answer

Im single. My baby's father is worthless, no job, tries to live off me. I dont miss him or even want him around. 
I feel like Im on a roller coaster with the fact that Im going to be a mom. Im excited 1 minute and then wishing it wasnt happening the next.. Im scared of doing it on my own, Im scared Ill never find a father figure for her one day. Being a single parent is not going to be easy.

dombomb_wt · Answer

im a soon to be mother who is single and I do feel lonely all the time but I do have family that supports me yea it ***** cuz I do want my babys father to be here supporting me to but you can't change a person unless they want change especially a careless one. try not to feel too sad cuz your baby feels what you feel so I try to stay positive you have a beautiful blessing on the way if the father doesn't want to be there then forget him, he's the one missing out on the happiness. keep your head up.

expectingaprince · Answer

Single and pregnant due any day now me n my babys dad tried getting pregnant for a while when I was 3 months I found out he was cheating we were on n off now his new girl is pregnant she is having a girl n im having a boy I still cry myself to sleep n wish I can be with him. I miss him so much but I hope all this is part of gods plans for me. 
Now all we single moms have to do is be strong for our babies. They will bring happiness to our life...

Still hope prince charming comes along One Day..

smackems · Answer

Awe ur such a sweetheart u always made my emotional self shed a tear lol :) thanks mumma2be !

mumma2bee · Answer

I was alone during my first pregnancy and when my daughter was 6 months old I fell in love with my boyfriend Tanner♥ he was amazing with her and after only 2 months we moved in together.  He is the only father my daughter knows and he introduces her as his daughter no matter who he meets. She calls his parents grandma n grandpa n his siblings are her aunt's and uncles.  On our 1 1/2 year anniversary we found out we were expecting our son. He is 11 months old now n we are expecting another bundle of joy in October! 

When I was alone during my pregnancy and then a single mother I thought I would never find a man to love and accept both me and my daughter,  But when I wasn't looking, I found my "happily ever after" and you too will have your fairy tail ending hun! I know it's hard to go through alone,  But you won't be alone forever n when u find Mr Perfect u will forget about the lonely feelings cause they will be replaced with a million good feelings♥ 

For now,  enjoy being YOU. Go out and do something nice for yourself like a pedicure to remind yourself how beautiful and amazing you really are!  Maybe plan a maternity photo shoot so u always have a framed reminder of how lovely and strong you are while carrying the greatest gift in the world.  
Keep your head held high hun♥

smackems · Answer

@Crisram beautifully said &thanks ladies we will get through this there is light at the end of the tunnel

crisram · Answer

There are so many women who would give anything in this world to grow a child inside of them.. you're never alone. You have the most perfect gift God could give a woman. Men come and go, but it's your job to make the best of your situation and look arty life for what it really is. I'm pregnant with my third child, my first two from the same father, but he never sees them. My third pregnancy now, and I'm coping with it on my own because that's just what you have to do as a mother.. but we are never alone. We have the grand prize in the end.. life is what you make of it :) and you're growing a beautiful life inside of you. It doesn't get any better than that!

Ftm1994 · Answer

Not single but my boyfriend works 12 hour shifts every day and I only see him for about 2 hours a day. I sleep on the couch most of the time only because our bed is so uncomfortable. I know where you are coming from. Before getting with my boyfriend... I was single and pregnant. My boyfriend isn't the real dad but claims my son. Hang in there hun. Only 6 weeks left for me

GodWillProvide · Answer

Crazy im in the same situation , live together,  its definitely his child..still feel alone , things get better... I know its not in Gods plan for us to feel alone when he is there

mysteriousbundleofjoy · Answer

I feel pretty alone... everyday my husband tells me he wishes he would of never married me.. all I do is **** him off... he even becomes abusive at times... I wish I was really alone becuz I feel it be better then what I go thru everyday...

dezy_mommy2be · Answer

:'( I'm in the same situation, speak to the father every other day & see him when HE feels like coming around, I'm about to be four months on sunday, & he moved out, talking to multiple females & has an alcohol problem & I feel sooo alone.! He was the only other person in this world that made me feel wholee. Now he just make me see why hes not even worth stressing over because when it comes to it Im already doing everything in my power to make sure my child is okay & I'm starting to look at it like thiss.... same thing he's doing while I'm prego is the same he'll be doing when my child gets here. I already know I'm going to be a single mom. Dont worry about it God has a GREATER PLAN, & there's someone out here for you that will make you happy and give you the worldd. ♥

Covergallove · Answer

On my second kid as well my son is three and both guys broke my heart. I ended it with my current baby father who im pregnant by now . He have to much drama
With his other baby mother her not wanting there son to see his brother or sister until three years from now. I'm not sad nor lonely but I do wish I could find someone to heal my heart and who's truly happy with me and I'm truly happy with them. I find things to get into I'm more focus . Maybe it's my pregnancy but I really don't care. I've been taught so many lessons and to stop making bad decisions. Your not alone lol

LadieKia · Answer

I feel like that everyday im a 2nd time mother pregnant with 2nd child n is single again kinda getting use to it smh thats horrible to say but hey it is what it is God Will bless us single mothers With Someone who will love us Unconditionally

Princessmikaa · Answer

I feel so pressured bcus I'm a single mom & I really don't have the support I need. I only have 10wks left & as the time gets closer I feel more depressed when I know I should be happy.

Niqueniq · Answer

I feel that way sometime which is why I keep my family around so much I hate to feel lonely

Jan3793 · Answer

Right here! I feel so lonely. And just found out baby's Dad has a new girl :( I'm beyond depressed. I have to force my kitty to cuddle with me :( haha.

Cherrishhess95 · Answer

I'm not single, but I feel alone. My boyfriend and I live in an apartment together and he seems to not care that I have feelings... he can be incredibly inconsiderate. Makes me alone feeling. But we're both young and I feel he's just not as mature as he should be. If that makes sense.