what do you guys think?

[juju_lo14]

so this really is bothering me like very bad and i cant seem to just get past this,  ok so i been with my husband for 3 years we have a 6 month old and now currently expecting again. i tell him no porn. i HATE if my man is watching porn while he has me, so he repects that and doesnt do it, but hes been watching this show true blood im sure most know what it is, well i never seen it but hes obsesses he watch since the very first episode, little did i know what was in it.. ok so its pretty much porn to me, they show the girls vagina's boobs, fully naked.. and acually having sex like every single episode, really? i get its just a tv show but hes still lookin at that idk if its hormonoes or what, but im kinda bothered. i dont want to say anything because its a show and at least hes not out doing something but its still getting to me. NO JUDGING OR NEGETIVE COMMENTS.. buut what would you mommies think? or opinions..

[sallyrunner]

Don't feel judged.  You are perfectly normal. Your feelings are real.  I hate that trash too

[July_mixed_baby_girl]

I think it's ohkay. But that's just my opinion! I feel like it's just a tv show but I've never seen the show myself so like I said I feel like maybe he's just into the show.  You knw how us girls gets when we get into a TV show. I feel like guys can get into tv shows the same way we do. But then again the naked girls could have been the reason he got into the show.

[agladding]

I would deff talk to him! It isn't just a "guy" thing either! My husband knows how I feel about porn! It usually makes us women feel like we are not attractive to them! My husband and I are far from religious so I know that isn't preventing us or him from watching porn. I'm not sure how open you are in your relationship, but maybe you would be open to making a video with him, that way he only gets off on you. My husband and I constantly spice up our sex life by trying little things out, like buying a new toy, or trying a new move! Maybe that will help him and you both out. I 100% agree that watching porn is addictive and it's so unrealistic! Maybe if guys walked around with their junk out and tv showed that all the time men would start to feel how we feel about porn, it's always females walking around with their boobs and clams out.

[MaddiesMommie14]

I don't think you should make a big deal out of it. He's not watching porn, but a TVs show. Help is respecting your wishes. I've watched true blood from the beginning also, and yes it is filled with sex scenes. But if he's not watching it for sexual pleasure I wouldnt equate it with porn. After so many seasons you just start to gloss over the sex scenes and wait for the actual story line to continue, trust me lol. Besides it's the series' last season. So just let him watch. There won't be any new episodes after this.  Just let him finish out the show.

[knufrio]

Porn and a television show are different though, he's not pleasuring himself to it so if it bothers you talk to him. I know not everyone has as open a relationship as I have and I can respect that but I honestly think your hormones are making it worse. Sit down with him and talk to him without sounding judgmental, if you sound at all accusatory he will just shut down. I've personally never watched True Blood but my husband and I used to watch Spartacus Blood and Sand and it was the same way.

[Ftm1990]

And it is most definitely not normal or part of life to watch random people that have no idea who the other is banging each other like its nothing just to make money or get somebody else off..idk where people come up with that being normal..that's what's wrong with relationships and marriages today!they tend to find things that they need elsewhere and society accepts that and thinks its okay!..it's not and I'm sure that there are women out there that totally agree so I'm not worried about the ones that don't.

[Star3789]

Wow ftm1990 well said.  My hubby also thinks that porn is like cheating and hates that all entertainment has to have some type of sex about it.  And the bible says (I know not everyone cares about the bible so u don't have to post telling me so, but some of us do) that if a man looks upon a woman with lust then he has already committed adultery in his heart.

[elocinin]

Porn doesnt bother me unless he lies about it...but I watch it more than him lol its natural to watch I used to be so against it until I realized its natural no biggie society wants you to think its so gross or bad.its really not. Think of it in a diff mindset....its part of life and esp men they like to look. I would say its your hormones tho dont worry about a tv show. Try to like it with him mayb it would give yall something together. Also watch out hormones cause crazy thinkin lol when I first found out i was preg I was trippin over nothing and everything. I had to realize it was me. Goodluck but I wouldnt worry too much :)

[showard022]

I definitely am totally against porn a hundred percent and he knows how I feel. But sometimes in this world there allot of nudity. I mean he doesn't watch any shows like that and don't know how I'd feel if he watched it himswlf. We did watch dexter which had a crap ton of nudity and allot of movies. We generally watch certain shows together thoguh. He works nights and rarely watches tv. I know that show Rome he watched a few a episodes and didn't anymore. It was much worse! Lol he might just really like the show.

[xolexixo]

i agree with Star3789

[Star3789]

It would bother me too. Just becuz men like doing something doesn't make it okay.

[knufrio]

I see no problem with it but then again I have no problem with porn either. Men like looking at women, its just in their nature.

[sweddy110]

To me I think its pretty much normal for me cause he rather sits home watch it than go out and its a show everyone has that one show they love to watch and I think that's his own :) he just loves the show hun don't stress or worry ;)