wrong or not?

[mommyofaria]

So my baby daddy hasn't been here really in the six months of my pregnancy.....he only comes in when its a good time.for him....I have been in the hospital for dehydration and could have lost the baby because her heartrate dropped several times.....he wasn't there then....almost a month later he calls me...which was last night and told me that he should start being here blah alah blah...I have just had it with him...its clear that he doesn't care and doesn't want to be here....I have just gotten to the point where I don't want to talk to him or even see him....I don't even think he deserves to be at boy doctor appointments Exp when I have my ultrasound........his cellphone has been off almost two months and he can see his friends and everything else but can't call to see how his daughter is doing......I'm only 21 and I hate I have to go through this....my daughter deserves better than a sometiming dad who comes in when It's a good look for him... I'm wondering if I'm wrong for not wanting him around.or not talking to him? I just can't deal with it anymore and I feel my daughter and I would be best without him .

[TatiSevani_]

ohhh okay i understand i been there its just men dont know when to mature in certain situations.

[mommyofaria]

It's not the point that I can't stand him because I still care...but I've gotten fed up with all the lies and should of could of would of.

[mommyofaria]

Oh I will never keep her away from him.....I always told him that....but he doesn't really come to any doctor visits and if he does he is always I mean constantly complaining about getting back to work.....his job and car is way more important than his daughter.....but I want her to have a good relationship with him.but he has to get it together

[TatiSevani_]

i was thinking like you but i know i cant keep the father away from his child its just not right me and my baby's dad get along fine now we just dont talk as much but he come to my doctors appointments and all so just dont punish your daughter because you cant stand her father it just wont be right.

[LanesMommy1012]

Keep your head up. Focus on you and the baby. As for him. Maybe something snapped and he is being serious. But your the only one who knows what's right and what's wrong. Don't keep her from him but he needs to be stable not just a come an go dad.

[carebearmomma]

Y'all can do it alone with out him! I'm not saying that you should keep your daughter away from her father by any means. I just think that guys like that are not even worth it. The guy who got me preggo hasn't talked to me since the very first ultra sound, hasn't called or anything. I do wish you the best of luck & hope everything works out. Just keep focused on you & baby .... stay strong & keep your head up!