not a question just need to vent

[kyanisse]

My bf and I dont live together but we live in the same town like 15min away he's using my car for work so I dont have any he havent come to see me in 4 days and im stock here with no car and he can go hangout with he's friends (yesterday he got home at 6am) im just so mad and have no one I can tell this things sorry for making you read this im just frustrated!!! And want my car back

[tutewidobaby]

Don't let him use your car anymore. There is more than likely a person he works with or one of his friends that he can pay gas money to so.he can get to and from work. He's taking advantage of the situation, if ANYONE had my car for days on end and didn't bring it back, I'd report it stolen.. you're preggo, if there's an emergency, you need to.have access to a vehicle at all times! Bottom line, it's your car. You paid for it. You pay the insurance. You pay the registration. He has no rights to your vehicle, especially because he's not married to you and has no leeway in the matter.

[annat33]

I would seriously ask him if he was all in cuz u don't need to deal with the stress of worring bout him and what he's doing. Pregnancy is hard enough tell him he needs to grow up or your done. Trust me I was in a smililar situation had to do the same thing and I loved him a lot and it was hard to say but he also cheated on me so it made it a bit easier. But he told me it was once and he madr the desicion to stay under my conditions of course and he grew up. I was perpared to do it on my own if he wasn't tho I wasn't guna deal with that crap and u shouldn't either!

[kyanisse]

Im just so sick of it! We've been together for 3 years and I dont think is ever gonna change! He acts like nothing happened! Just want to scream

[jaxma04]

I can relate a little bit. When i had my son i was 19 my bf wouldnt come home for days all the sudden nd had my car. I later found out he had a girl friend the enire time i was pregnant and i caught him in my truck with her when my son was 3 mnths old. Not saying your bf has a girl friend but i would shake him...some of the best children are raised by only there moms. Keep your head up and dont dragg it out. Dont torcher your self. If he wants this he will come around... I had to suck it up and have my dad go get my truck. I wish you the best . Either way the wheel turns you will be ok.
Jaxma