Everyone feels at diff times depends on your size and how hard baby moves. I felt him first at 16 weeks jus a small flutter. But mine doesnt move much. You may not notice you feel it. Lay down andpush your tummy mine always moves when I mess w him a lil its fun and doesnt hurt tthem. I wouldnt worry too much if everytging is normal at your apts
I cry at everything lol its just hormones im 25 weeks and didnt start feeling kicks until 21.5 weeks. Dont stress!