You can do a blood test from ten weeks onwards to find out. I wasn't really getting attached but now that she is moving and I'm starting to get things ready for her I feel a lot more connected. I waited till 16 weeks and went for a 4d scan to find out the gender.
I found out at 10 weeks by blood test
I had to wait until my 20 week scan and we just found out yesterday we are expecting another boy! This will be our fourth boy :)
I was totally on the same boat! So miserable and a bit disconnected. I wanted to know so bad that I scheduled a 3D/4D scan two weeks before my 15weeks to make sure I got in. We found out yesterday we are having a girl! Now I am going to have my perfect pair :-)
I waited until my 20 week scan. It was definitely torture at times waiting. Especially when I started hearing people due after me already knowing the gender. Once the baby starts moving at 15-17 weeks the disconnected feeling will probably go away.
I found out with a 3D ultrasound at 14 weeks with both of my babies. My first is a boy and is 1.5 years and now I'm 32 weeks pregnant with our baby girl!
I would love to found out soon too but I'm 8weks so I got some time