Chelly_tbunda I totally agree with you. I was so thankfully he was just being nice. It's the first time my entire pregnancy someone has been just nice with no mean comments.
I just wanted to share cause it was such a nice break from the regular treatment I get.
Hey, he was concerned and wanting to help. At least he wasn't judging, or scoffing at you being rude lol
Omg today just topped it all! I was grocery shopping and since I only needed a few items I got a hand basket. I was waddling towards the front to checkout and the cashier actually asked a lady to move to a other line and hurried over to help me!
He kept asking 'omg why didn't you get a cart? I can get you a cart if you have more shopping to do. Or I can run and get the items for you.' And he took my basket from me...
I actually burst out laughing by the time he was finished bagging my 5 items cause he went and got me a basket to get to the car. If he hadn't been doing it with such concern and pure panic I think I would've cried instead of just laughing my head off.
yea I feel ur pain I'm all belly and gained about 50lbs but I get rude comments all time people say looks like ur carry twins or I'm over due or I'm too huge like I don't already know this but thank God I have just have a month left
I have read and my midwife told me if I get pains due to my belly getting big I may need to get a support band so the skin , womb , back aren't takeing the waight causeing the strain to mum. You can buy them online or on most maternity / baby stores so you can try them on if you xant get to a store measure yourself before ordering.
I hope this helps you mum,s enjoy your baby belly more and be more confortable.
So glad I'm not alone in the misery here...it's ice to know I'm not crazy:) well crazier than normal that is, pregnancy hormones cause some interesting mood swings:/
Omg katieloub22 I can't believe your co-worker said that! Ifjnd being all belly it's so tight even when baby isn't moving it's just sore. I grow such big babies my muscles actually separate so I have that pain added in.
Thankfully my co-workers were nice and actually other than the 'omg you barely look prego' comments they were great. lol they even stopped eating certain foods at lunch so I wouldn't need to vomit.
I'm all belly too and don't look pregnant from behind, sick of hearing the comments as well on it. My maternity cover at work made a hurtful comment when I was rubbing my belly one day around 29 weeks pregnant - she came in, gave me a bitchy look and said "you're not even that big" and walked off! Didn't realise I needed to be a certain size to rub my bump when my daughter is kicking / wriggling! I don't like going out alone now though, because of my size people aren't obviously aware I'm pregnant so I don't feel safe, feel like they're going to bump into me or knock bump:(
Same here only I gained 40 all in my belly I have 8 days til my induction and yes I'm tired of hearing that it must have been easy my back has never hurt so much in my entire life....I gained weight everywhere with my first and I wasn't having even close to this much pain!
Or when store personnel ignore your request for help because they don't see the belly! I'm all like, it's your job to help me even if I'm not pregnant.
Yes i feel your pain as well im in the same boat, ppl think u have it easier but in reality we dont having to carry tge whole pregnancy weight gain in the front is more strain on us because the weight isnt being distributed evenly thru out our bodies i also get the oh damn i couldn't even tell you were pregnant from the back comments and tgey **** me because before the person had realized i was pregnant they were getting annoyed about me moving slow, i cant wait ti delivery this bby hes soo low in my pelvis that getting dressed is joke in itself i love my bby but counting the days till i get my body back