Divorcing him after all

tattoomommy03

I was ready to try and work things out.. but turns out that's not gonna happen. I'm so mad right now I'm still shaking! I was out driving around and went to Starbucks to p and get coffer and a snack. As i just got parked, grabbed my wallet and walked to the door to my surprise there sits my husband sucking face with this woman. Who is very well pregnant... I asked him what was going on. She got mad at me. Guess she didn't know I was married to him and pregnant with twins. His twins. She said they were together a year! WTF how could I not see this? She's due next month!!! He started to cry... again... she slapped him ( good girl) apologized to me. And told him she would be after support. the girls working at Starbucks came out to see what was going on and I told them and everyone else there and he left. But hey got free coffee out of it... I'm so hurt. I feel so stupid. What an @$$!

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searra

dont worry sweetie you have a support system and the ten year old can help so much. Twins arent that hard just got to put them on a scedule. When u feed them sit in a butterfly position and feed both at the same time. Thats saved me so much time! Good luck

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tattoomommy03

ThNk you all so much.. I didn't sleep much last night. So upset I kept vomiting.. now my throat hurts. Think I'm gonna have a lazy day of nothing but paranormal shows lol. He tried to call but my dad said he never went hone. So no idea where he went.. I know I can raise my kids alone. I've done it before. It just scares me. It was hard with one babe... now there's gonna be new born twins and a 10 year old.

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searra

what a jerk!!thats the good thing about karma both of you got to find out before she had her baby and he looses everything. When my hubby left me he thought he was going to live it up. Right before I had my baby, he lost his job his car and became homeless. He lost everything and had to learn a huge life lesson what goes around comes around. Everyday youll become alittle bit stronger and one day you will be so glad that you got to close this chapter in your life. I wish you the very best and a beautiful new start with you and your precious babies.

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AHP84

I am so sorry! I had followed your story for the last couple of weeks, but I was hoping for the best for you once you'd said you wanted to work things out. I feel sick for you, this is just terrible and I'm so sorry.
Please don't feel like you were dumb or a fool. You were not and are not. But I understand the frustration and pain on that level, although it didn't happen with my husband. I've been through a life situation over this past year that basically hits on the same level of pain and betrayal from someone I deeply love and care for (an immediate family member)--I never saw it coming and it just blew up in my face one day and I'm still left with no answers for it. I felt the same way; like such a fool and like I should have seen it coming. What's worse is that I've had multiple other people tell me they saw it coming, so...it's been a tough year but I've had to learn that I was not being foolish or stupid about any of it. Still struggle with those feelings from time to time, though. It's so hard.
Big hugs to you. Again, I'm so sorry. ♥

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