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Since I got pregnant my baby's father has been giving mixed signal. First month he was extremely busy with school and work. The next three months he was very involved. He took me shopping for maternity clothes and different things. As pregnancy progressed he went ghost for a couple of months. He popped up at week 28 apologies and begged for forgiveness. Of course I ended our intimate relationship in the beginning when he first started to act stranger. I decided to take what he had to offer. Has the baby's father and also a friend. I didn't have much choice I'm having a difficult pregnancy due to cordio problems. As the week passed by he was there for appointments and all. Here I am 34 week and he called me last night to tell me that he has his family and their going to work things out. That he wants to be a part of his baby's life and he wants no problems from me. However he's not sure if he'll be there to support me for the rest of the pregnancy.  There's no question, I just had to let that out of my system.
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7001988 tn?1392134797
Wish you well dear. I don't fully understand his comment of not being there for the rest of the pregnancy, but wanting to be there for the baby. Being there for the rest of the pregnancy is being there for the baby. Anyways at least u have some clarity and no how to proceed from here. Again wish u well!
5079976 tn?1380275206
Sorry you are going through this; I wish you well throughout the rest of your pregnancy but now you know what you have to do for you and your baby. Dont think or even worry about him and what he will do because you will stress yourself out. Like your title says FAITH that is what you should have in that everything will be ok and the Lord will provide . My first born which is my first son father has had nothing to do with him from conception but I was blessed to meet my now husband during my pregnancy and he has never left my side and we are on our second child together. I prayed and I left it up to God when it came to my donor for my first child. Let go and let God trust me it all will be ok.
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Thanks, I appreciate your kind words. I have 40 days left and I'm happy my baby is still cooking. I have so much complications throughout this pregnancy. I've blocked out and lost consciousness several times to the point where I was in the hospital. With all my health issues I managed to do 2 full time jobs up to my 7th month. I'm currently working one. Point is I made it this far with a strong fight. And every time I feel my baby movie it gives me more faith because she's my strength.
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You are a strong woman. You will be ok.
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