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Let's share positive story here plz!
Ok this is a pregnancy app and which is whoever came on here r either pregnant or just have their baby.and it's a joyful thing to be happen in women's life.we share our pregnancy experiences here,help each other go thru some tough time of carrying a baby.but! please leave the negative things out of here!like ur baby's dad is cheating on u or he left for other woman while ur pregnant then u would be like oh I'm fine without him,I don't need him stuff like that. have u ever think about ur baby?!they didn't ask to be born.and bringing a baby in a single family isn't fair to them at all!if that baby's dad isn't the right one why didn't u take birth control? why didn't u try to protect yourself?remember this girls!we have the power to bring a new life into this world which is we have to be responsible for another life beside our own.be smart and strong. always make right choice for u and ur next generation.
I got pregnant WHILE ON BIRTH CONTROL...nothing is 100 percent. While I kind of agree with the drama being tamed down a bit...I cant say that I agree with the rest of it! Thankfully my fiance and I are working through this and trying our best to make sure everything works out, and we make sure that our son is our #1 priority!!
I just feel so sad for your ignorance. I understand your opinion that they should take birth control because pregnancy will not fix your relationship problems but a lot of women didn't find anything wrong until after the baby was conceived or they were fed really good lies. I also get that you want a happy positive pregnancy app but unfortunately not everyone experiences a happy pregnancy. Having a familiar group of women who can understand, relate and give their life experience has lifted some women out of difficult times. I will be sure to scroll right past your posts and I suggest you doing the same if it's something you don't want to read/hear. Good luck with your pregnancy and I hope it's everything you are controlling it to be.
I agree with you Ashley
^^ my comment were not to attack or judge her. Thanks for clearing things up and for making this into a peaceful place.
^^ my comment were not to attack or judge her. Thanks for clearing things up and for making this into a peaceful place.
Thats a good point..ill take that on board..thankyou :)
I agree with all the ladies who responded. And my point was made in the first reply. keep in mind by your posts of no judgement you are also passing it. We are adults and should be able to comment without disrespecting anyone. I don't believe my post was to attack this Individual but to inform her that everyone has a different situation and deserves a friend. Please don't turn into what you despise otherwise none of us have a right to comment.
life isn't always happy happy. just because your world is perfect, doesn't give you the right to dictate what others should post about or not. no one asked for your sympathy or judgement. I doubt you'll get any if you ever needed it.
We're here to celebrate the good times together and to support each other through rough times. we all have our own stories to share.
if you don't like this forum, feel free to move on.
We're here to celebrate the good times together and to support each other through rough times. we all have our own stories to share.
if you don't like this forum, feel free to move on.
Wow!!
Wow how ignorant are you things aren't always so black and white these ladies c
What a horrid post. I would far rather try and help someone in that situation than them keep it.bottlwd up. You shouldnt judge so much!
You sound like a very ignorant female! How dare you judge anyone! Things can be good when you conceive a baby and get rocky in between. If it takes a little pain from someones heart to reach put for support than by all means let them vent to other women. If you don't like it just don't read it. Seriously! God knows where you may end up one day so don't stick your nose up too high.
Some people have nowhere else to turn, particularly if the father was on board at the beginning of the pregnancy.
I'm not sure how the original poster can make such a flippant remark. Thankfully, my pregnancy has been great so far and God willing it will remain so, but there are others who have other troubles maybe in and out of pregnancy. How about just showing a bit of sympathy and if you don't want to read about negativities in the lives of the other women on this forum, perhaps you shouldn't read them. That is just my opinion, but some people really struggle to be open about their feelings with those around them - particularly if nobody else around them is pregnant.
I'm not sure how the original poster can make such a flippant remark. Thankfully, my pregnancy has been great so far and God willing it will remain so, but there are others who have other troubles maybe in and out of pregnancy. How about just showing a bit of sympathy and if you don't want to read about negativities in the lives of the other women on this forum, perhaps you shouldn't read them. That is just my opinion, but some people really struggle to be open about their feelings with those around them - particularly if nobody else around them is pregnant.
We are here to support each other through thick & thin. If everything was always perfect we wouldn't need each other now would we? Show some compassion & if you have no empathy then leave it alone.
Honestly, how ridiculous. We don't live in a perfect world where every child is born into a picket fenced home. You just sound very uncaring. Don't read the posts if you're going to be so judgemental. You think these women asked to be lied to especially during this time? Like they knew it was coming & decided they wanted to do it all alone?
I dont agree with you not one bit!! When you get married theres always going to be ups and downs and and some things that we have no cotrol off!! And regardless if we could have used birth control or not doesnt make a difference because at the end of the day once we have that baby it becomes part of our life's and it doesnt matter if their dad is irresponsible dead beat!! At the end of the day there's thousands of ladies out there that don't need a man on a day to day basis to survive!! And if you have all this perfect little life and you have zero problems in your marriage so happy for you!! Unfortunately some of us are human and some of us do have our ups and downs sometimes and we feel like letting out once in a while caues it does help we might be strong but trust me here and there we give up some times!!
We know this is about pregnancy and not about other topics other than pregnancy I have been married 6 years and we have 2 kids and sometimes people need someone to talk to and they seek help. I am a very compassionate, loving and a caring person. I probably won't ever understand how they feel but at least I can comfort them, what if you were in that person shoes and you did not have no one to talk to or you was very hurt? We all make mistakes please do not judge or make fun of other people's emotions and or pain.
Like I said in the other post towards you...you shouldnt judge till you walked a mile in our shoes! I loved the dad so much and wish we could have worked things out but he is a liar and a cheater which of course I didnt know these things till after I was pregnant already!! So this post is ridiculous because u dont know peoples stories and what theyve been through!
When something like that happens to you..every single hsppy thing to do with your baby is tinged with sadness..if you dont want to read about it dont..but if you are MARRIED you know that thing you do vowing to love and cherish til death do us part infront of witnesses and PLAN a baby and still get left by them..u still gunna blame the lady..my heart was ripped out years ago by my husband and when I see other people post i know how devastating it is..and im glad I can help offer some comfort..i needed that when i was there..this post disgusts me
I whole heartedly agree with 75% of your post. This is a pregnancy app and I would love for it to stay that way but, everyone doesn't get pregnant by a man they met yesterday and now he is leaving. I have been married for 8 years and this is our first child and please believe things aren't wonderful. But regardless of however my situation turns out my husband will be a marvelous father and I am able to support my son with or without him. So please just be mindful that there sometimes are things out of our control. I mean no one would imagine having baby daddy problems with their husband I mean honestly who just thinks that? I appreciate your post and input just be mindful that judgement isn't pretty. And everyone doesn't fall into the stereotypical situations.
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