The office where I go, I always see one Dr, he was my Dr from day one with my last pregnancy, deliver my son, and he's my Dr now. He was on vacation last week so I had to see a different Dr in the same office, very rude, really didn't give a crap about me, my pregnancy, or any concerns I had. Sooo I'll be sticking with my main Dr. So just try switching? Not all Dr's are.. well jerks.
I also used a midwife with hospital privileges! You can totally still deliver at a hospital! I would highly recommend using a midwife if you don't like your Dr!
My OB actually has a midwife who has hospital privileges and they work as an amazing team. I can choose to have her there with me he whole time if I want or just use nurses and the dr. But ask offices if they have a convo, most offices around me work in teams.
Also just switching OB's might enough, some offices give more attention than others.
Good luck finding someone.
Find a midwife. Just because you get a midwife doesn't mean that you have to have a home birth? Whoever told you that was very wrong. Luckily for me my OBGYN is a midwife as well so I've really stuck with her through both of my pregnancies and she is amazing!
I had a midwife deliver my first via water birth in the hospital. I loved her! She's been with me the whole pregnancy,and seemed to me that midwives listen and take care of you. They become a friend instead of just a doctor. I'm currently 20 weeks with baby number 2 and sticking with my midwife that delivered my first. My advice is, do research and look at pros and cons. In my experience, there were absolutely NO cons.
I have a midwife and I love her! A have a lot of girl friends who have had kids and they recommended this particular midwife. If you can ask around who they've used and who they like that could be a good start too! :)
You answered your own question. You're unhappy with doctor find a new one. There are groups that offer both a midwife and a doc. Midwives can deliver in a hospital. What I've learned with my first one is
Find a midwife with hospital privileges. Midwives are fantastic during delivery. A midwife does not have to equal a home birth. A lot of hospitals midwives and doctors work together.
I say find another doctor. And another hospital. I found one just by picking and she is so amazing! And since I'm having complications I have a specialist who she referred me to and they are friends and talk about my case everything I see one of them and they are on the same page and they are both so amazing!!!