Pregnancy General

[lena2216]

I am 10weeks second baby . First baby passed away at 6months from SIDS. The father of both baby's just passed away on the anniversary of our daughters would be 1st bday. Preganacy is hard enough. I just need some uplifting words advice. Anything..

[Zaneekah]

I'm so sorry for your lost. My love god wouldn't put anything on you that you won't be able to handle. This is a test your going through it will be just okay. Just pray. Midwife etc others are talking about is fine but nothing is better than having a personal connection and conversation with god. Talk to him more I promise you will be at ease. May god bless you

[lena2216]

Yes I went to the same midwife I had with my first she is involved and sending me to specialist to monitor more closely trying to get me into phycatrist.

[Duerrgirl]

Please make sure to let your OB/midwife know how you are feeling...they can most likely suggest support groups (if you want) and they will keep an eye out for pregnancy and postartum depression/anxiety.

I miscarried 5 weeks before we got pregnant with our first and had pregnancy anxiety which my OB and his midwife mobitrred closely and helped me through.

[lena2216]

Yea duerrgirl, that's the part that for a keep me going that he is with her now. Considering he was with her when she passed. I just have anxiety as it is and I'm 1000 times worse. Thank you.

[Duerrgirl]

It may be hard right now but the silver lining is you are going to give birth to a piece of  both of you!  You will have that piece of him around forever.
And I bet he's snuggling your first born right now.