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8171562 tn?1408628833

Runaway

Feeling so distant from my husband right now. All I want is to be close to him...but things are so hard...and we have so many misunderstandings.
Am I wrong for just walking out tonight?
I feel that everyone's lives would be better if I just disappeared. :'(
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8171562 tn?1408628833
Thank you Ladies, you are all so very supportive. After I got back from my walk, hubby and I sat out on the swing and talked everything out. And feeling better now.
Our is we come from two different worlds. He is from Kenya and I'm just a Midwest farm girl...so things I say he misinterpts what I'm trying to get across to him and vise versa.
Please keep me in y'alls prays God knows I can use them right now.
Again. Thank you, ladies.
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I understand how u feel im 30weeks pregnant and my boyfriend broke up with me and haven't seen him in a month in a half we can't even carry a conversation without arguing n fighting this has been going on since I found out I was pregnant we had more bad then good days....I left him alone ma stress can be very critical right now I wish u the best ma

God bless
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I feel the same way. Like right now, ge decidez ti ditch me to have drinks with his uncle on our porch, who never comes around at all. I asked him to take me fishing today but he dudnt want to. Tomorrow though he is going with his brother.
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3062962 tn?1406743961
I don't know your.situation, but walking out will cause more problems tomorrow rather than solve the ones you have tonight. I've felt this way too,.and know that nothing will actually take your mind off your problems. but go into a.room by yourself, take a bath, listen to music, read a book, watch a movie...something to help you kinda zone out to maybe get some sleep. once you are feeling better, try talking to your husband. tell him that you have your arguments, but you are starting to feel unwanted so could they move to the back burner for you guys to have one day to yourselves. I know when my husband and I argue, of I bring up that I have felt he would be happier if I left, he drops the issue if it is something petty or leaves it for later after we discuss why I would want to leave.
don't be ashamed to talk to your doctor if you are feeling depressed. best of luck to you, honey.
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Avatar universal
Pregnancy and hormones makes us a little crazy. Walking out is not gonna fix it. Pray and God will help you. He is always there for us. If you think you need help call your doc. I'm on lexapro cause otherwise all i do is cry all day and feel miserable. Ithelps me a lot, along with praying and bible reading. Don't give up. Youre strong! I'll be praying for you. God bless!
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