Seriously? SO embarrassed about my vagina now. Moms please read!!!

[ollyxv]

Hi everyone,

Okay, so I had my son almost 8 weeks ago.
Today, just because, I decided to look down there with a mirror and now I wanna cry.
I have random flaps of skin hanging out of my vagina. It looks so disgusting and terrible, I don't even know why my doctor or husband haven't mentioned it? They're definitely big enough to notice.
I didn't tear or have an episiotomy. This *****.
Anyone else have this too? I felt bad enough about my stretch marks and weight... now this too, even worse. :(

[kfw6293]

U will go back. Even though I'm sure ur not "showing it off" still  a body part of urs and of course u will be concerned. It will be ok! I'm a mom of 3 n one on way. Make sure u do kegel exercises alot for the inside muscles to!

[TexasMom1108]

Unless you're showing it off to people I wouldn't worry

[babyh3otw]

Its caused by swelling of all the labial folds, you had major trauma come through there and it takes a while for it to fully heal, plus if you are breastfeeding you will still have extra fluids in your body. Totally normal trust me Ive had 2 kids and an episiotomy both times it will get back to normal eventually

[ollyxv]

Seriously? It's normal? I just don't even know that's how messed up mine looks. :(

[jennyonnumber3]

Its just what happens after birth. I actually thought something was wrong and went to Dr after my first but its normal