So ladies I'm currently going to be 39 weeks tomorrow and my doctor and nurse advice me to have sex so I can open up. I saw doctor monday the nurse ask me if I wanted my obgyn to check but I said no. Call me silly n crazy I'm still embarrass of him checking me down there lol. Anyways since Monday my husband and I've been having sex but I feel like I'm still too tight down there sorry tmi. Does that mean I'm not open yet?