Aa
alone....
My bf left after 5 years wjen we found out I was preg. Since then has come back. Now all he does is play a video game and jacks off. I get nothing. No time or love. And now I'm past due and he stays up until 4am every night. I work fulltime and he has no job. Its not fair. I was due halloween. I don't know what to do. I have tried talking and he said he would spend less time on it but nothing is different.
Really I don't blieve a women should support a man that not contributing. U need to put him out he's clearly just using u. Ur supposed to b his woman not mother he is a grown man. Sorry that ur going thru that but ur single while he's there so what's the point of having him around. To stress u out? Get the strength to let go. Seems like he has
Sweety you must think about it.... now u provide for 2.. if baby comes you will provide for 3 ppl AND have to work while he does nothing.... not all men dont change... but ppl normaly dont change, just because there is a baby on the way does not necessarily means he will stepp up... if he dont, then kick him out.... we all are worth more than that and have other things to worry about... strongs and hope baby comes soon...
He needs to leave. You would be better off alone.
Wow he's worthless....you and baby don't need that. You don't need him and it's true that he's not going to change...he stays out until 4am? How disrespectful...you can have so much better because there are real men out there...I'm just saying that if you don't have him, he's not the only one that would ever want you. And it sounds like he's just using you anyways...I had to boyfriends just like that because I thought they could change...they don't...you can get through this without him.
Sounds like he's never going to change- you can't force people to change, you need to evaluate what's best for you and the baby because if you're constantly stressed because of him baby will sense it
Sorry to hear that :( hopefully things change after the baby, if not, then at least you will have your precious bundle of joy to occupy all of your time with
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