Thanks everyone. I'm still pretty freaked out but trying not to worry. I just have such a fear of another m/c.
Discharge and cramping is normal and since you have had a baby before your cervex will always be slightly open. I'm sure baby is just fine :)
Oh and the cramps are normal too. Its your body making room for baby. :-) lay down and kick your feet up to ease pain and drink tons of h20
I'm sorry for you loss. I too lost a baby at 11 weeks.
Try not to panic. Hard I know but don't. Stress will make you go nuts AMD actually loose baby. White discharge in pregnancy is normal. I had it thru out my pregnancy with my oldest son and my twins.
Don't try to check for dialaton on your own. Have a pro do it. You can cause a lot of damage doing it yourself and cause bleeding. They will tell you to go get checked if you are bleeding a lot to where you soak a pad in an hour. Have blood rushing down your legs. Bad cramps in belly or if you notice and leaking of fluids. At this stage the white discharge is normal. If it will make you feel better, go and get checked. Peace of mind is awesome. Don't worry, just relax.