do i care to much?

[rara4]

While we r renovating our house my bf us staying at a cousins house. His cousin has a female roommate. My boyfriend has borrowed her car a few times. She buys him food. They text each other. They drink together.  I've tons him things are getting a little to close n so one day while I was there he made sure to talk to her more than any one else that was there. They giggled n talked in low voices. Our daughter walked into a bedroom n apparently this girl was in there too cuz wen I called for my daughter she goes Oh she's in here! His cousin said her mamma wants her to b where she sees her. My boyfriend then goes nope that's a lie we gn just Kerry that go cuz that's not true. So I left. Cuz he was flirting with her n talking like that. He said I just didn't want my daughter around her...which it wasntt that I don't know either of them well I don't want my two year old wandering their home. They r big drinkers n smokers. And the part I really don't like is he told me he's told her every thing about me except the really bad things...like wtf. I feel like things r waaaaaay to much with them.

[Sophiajojo]

U dont need this in your life. I found it so hard to walk away from my daughters father...always felt I needed him despite his problems. The day I left was the best choice I ever made. I even looked better weeks after..ppl said I was glowing. Took me a while to get over it but im telling you now this is no life. Life is too short. Think about your kids. I had to put my daughters needs before my own..which can be hard if you love someone but hes dragging you down. You dont need your daughter to think thats normal or thats what men should be like and end up in a relationship like that herself one day. Shes too precious for that. Not saying for you to stop your children from seeing their father but you need to be strong. I dont even know you so  im sorry to rant..it only upsets me when I read things like this as I remember going through it all myself.  You need to work on your self esteen. Hes an idiot. He needs you more than u need him. Free yourself! Goodluck...and if u do stay...set boundaries but u will eventually grow tired of his ways. And u dont wanna be old when that happens and waste all your young life on this one individual. Goodluck

[rara4]

My auto correct is wacky

[rara4]

Yes he is...unfortunately. And any time I don't like something n talk to him about it he gets mad n pretty much tells me get over it it's not gn change. Cuz I've talked to jinn a couple times about thus. N other things too. If he didn't agree or doesn't want to do something that's it. He doesn't work with me or compromise

[Sophiajojo]

I wouldnt put up with this at all! Im angry for you. How disrespectful of him to do this. What if it was the other way round and u did this to him. Is your boyfriend a big drinker?

[babysept2014]

Would be too much for me to take as well. Sounds like they've gotten a little too close. If you ave no doubt he tells you the truth all the time then sit down an talk with him to find out what's happening. Best of luck!

[rara4]

I do feel like it's too much. I've been around his female friends b4 n it wasn't like this. I told him if he set boundaries I wouldn't have an issue...but of course he just got mad n snapped at me n said he didn't wanna deal with another jealous woman

[MommyToBe__01]

Omg, I wanted to cry because I feel bad that you feel this way. I want to cry because I wouldn't even dare to want to go through this. My boyfriend & I aren't allowed to have boy or girl friends because of the feelings we would feel.

I'm sorry, but that's a little sketchy that they are a little over stepping their boundries as "friends". I wanna cry, (omg my hormones) :(

Why do they need to text eachother? smh