emotional support.

[Whitnoon]

I am 6 weeks and the father assaulted me and is now claiming that the baby might not be his (if it isn't his than it must be the second coming of christ) while he was assaulting me his mother just stood by and watched and is the one that convinced him that the baby isn't his. This is my first pregnancy and already at only 6 weeks I am I guess a form of a single mom. What I want to know is how to deal with everything. Going through all of this alone.

[mommabear2015]

Wow. Def get a restraining order and press charges on him and her. She is just as much at fault. Him being at apts won't automatically get him on the birth certificate he has to sign it. I say just don't tell him about any apts.or when you go into labor. If you get  restraining order then he can't come near you. This happened to a friend of mine. Her bf actually hurt their child and he ended up dieng from head trauma after 3,days of life support. Then to.make it worse when she accused him and tried to.leave he raped her and she got.pregnant. she couldn't t prove it about the son and she feared for her life.so did nothing about the assault. Now the sicko has visitation. W her daughter. Its disgusting she is afraid for her every time she goes there. You need to take action immediately for your unborn child. Even if.you get a.order of.protection or maybe you. can move somewhere he won't find you and just say you don't know who the father is. At this.point telling him he def.isn't the father might even get himaloneave you alkne in the future. Idk you need to do something drastic.

[becca87C]

Restraining order against both of them. You don't need nor should you want a toxic person like himself or his mother in your and your baby's life. Good luck and be strong!

[Wolfeenix]

Start with pressing charges and getting a restraining order against him. Then seek out a sort of support group for women of domestic violence or confide in your close friends.
You don't have to let him win. You're a strong woman, you're gonna be OK.

[markysmess]

You just have to be the strong figure that you know your child will need, regardless of what happens. That baby will always have you and you will always have your child, like a team. Dont let anyone bring you down. If your parents are around and supportive now is the time to lean. Or if you have any other family you could get close with or a friend who's been around, there is usually someone. Just keep your head up and know that whatever you do it has to be for the good of both you and your child. Dont take him to any appointments here on out cause they will put him on the birth certificate and if he doesnt want responsibility he doesnt need to be on it right now. Later maybe after its born and maybe even after a paternity test he can be added. Its a lot easier than the opposite way around. Just be strong. You can always pm me if you need to. Keep your head up girl you got this.

[xcited_mommy2b]

It's not easy I'm currently going through the same thing with the father of my child. It's a very lonely and hurtful feeling. I pray a lot and have faith in God. That's the only thing that's keeping me going plus no matter what I know my child is a blessing and will be taken care of with or without a father.