Weird tmi comment i suppose but i read that the semen from sex softens the cervix but the female orgasm itself makes the uterus contract and can jump start labor by getting the contractions going...nooo idea if there is any truth to this but if your not in the mood to actually have sex the act itself isn't really nessasary
I feeling the same way love. I'm only 1cm dilated, with minor cramps and major signs of labor.
I have 5 days to go too!!! Friday started sharp period like cramps off and on randomly... I ate hot wings and experienced contractions right after yesterday.. Scary. Nervous my first too! Goodluck!!