venting....... feeling depressed

[MsLadie87]

I am feeling like so stressed out right now... my child's father and I aren't together anymore and its crazy because we were working on us and itshe ends up getting in a relationship with someone else which hurts really bad and its like now when he calls or something all those emotions just come back and I start to feel depressed or something and I can barely make it through a phone conversation with him ending in my crying and feeling like nothing..... it probably wouldn't bother me if I wasn't 31weeks pregnant... I just don't know what to do anymore and its like he doesn't even really care I'm sorry to vent but I just feel so alone like I don't have anybody to talk to and I feel like I'm nothing sometimes which is a terrible feeling I'm ready for my baby to get here because that's one person that I know I will have when I feel like I have nobody else. And sorry if there is and misspelled words trying text and I'm crying now feels like I can't stop

[MsLadie87]

Thank you ladies reading all off the positive things are helping me feel better and I'm a ftm

[Capricorn11]

That is just awful im sorry to hear that youre going through this. My boyfriend and I are having troubles of our own so I pray we'll be able to work through it all. ..but as for you. ..you just have to keep praying and also keep reminding yourself that he isn't worthy of you or your babys presence!  Praying for you and your baby!  God bless and good luck and congrats :)

[Capricorn11]

That is just awful im sorry to hear that youre going through this. My boyfriend and I are having troubles of our own so I pray we'll be able to work through it all. ..but as for you. ..you just have to keep praying and also keep reminding yourself that he isn't worthy of you or your babys presence!  Praying for you and your baby!  God bless and good luck and congrats :)

[dande2169]

I'm sorry for what you are going through. I can't even begin to imagine the difficulties you're having right now.

You aren't a nobody. You are beautiful,special and amazing. You are a mommy and you got the best your ex had to offer: a beautiful child. He doesn't deserve you or your tears, but you deserve better than he can offer you and you have every right/reason to feel how you do.

Remember: you are beautiful, special and amazing. Hang in there and do your best.

[Leilanismommy13]

Aww sweetie is going to be ok he doesn't deserve you if he's acting like that...try not to stress over an non factor ....im sorry you feel that way and your going through this but i promise everything is going to be ok

[ChrissyMarie84]

Ugh I know what you mean. My child's father left and we had been planning on this baby and a home and possible marriage. He left when I was only three Weeks and I am only 8 now. He doesnt even know it might be two. I dont have any advice BC it is all so new but I wanted to let you know you are not alone. he lives right around the corner and I can't even get a ride to the ER or more than a text when the new woman is in the shower so I cut off all communication for awhile. It has helped but I am still having nightmares. To hear you still standing so much further along gives me hope. Thank you.

[diva275]

Been there done that.. for your own sanity establish sine boundaries. Only talk to him when necessary and only about baby. Do not engage in the shouldda woudda conversation. Realize the idea of a perfect lil family is over and stop remembering the good times. Remember all the crap he did that hurt you, made you angry or cry. You'll be fine.

[MsLadie87]

Thank you

[annat33]

The situation and your hormones don't help with being depressed and the crying. If I were you I would only talk to him when its absolutely necessary cuz he will just keep upsetting you. I'm sorry your feeling alone but things will work out fine. My first baby I was 17 and the dad took off on me so I had to deal with things on my own. But I made it through and now I'm married to a good guy that loves me and treats my daughter as his own.