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I'm 23 weeks pregnant and I'm 30 yrs old. My husband is 35 yrs old and is a truck driver who don't get alot of sleep. I've become so horny that I want it all the time but my husband is tired all the time and sometimes we can start making love but he gets tired in the middle of it and goes soft(sorry tmi). I love my husband but I have needs too. I just want to crush up a blue pill and put it in his coffee I want it so bad what should I do.
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Can someone please help me on this situation
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Maybe talk to him about getting a prescription for the blue pill. So that way he doesn't get mad or if he has a bad side effect to it he was willingly taking it. Maybe when hes on the roads and your alone get a toy to self please so the want isn't as strong when he comes home and you're not as frustrated and both can enjoy the intimacy together.
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Maybe you should try pleasing yourself. It can be fun as well :) Play in front of him, might forget about being tired.
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Find the right toys..  My hubby is gone for the last 20ish weeks and like to find I am very excited...  I just have to take care of myself..  Good luck  
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I have a toy and it works great but I just miss being with him. And I've tried playing in front of him he gets excited but gets tired in the middle of it and goes soft.its just so frustrating.
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My hubby is always tired too. Like others have said you might just have to please yourself. Or when you do have sex just try and make it quick if he is tired.
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And he also don't want to go to a dr to talk to them because he is ashamed
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He needs to take a supplement to naturally produce active testosterone. His testosterone levels are probably low. But it if he takes pharmaceutical testosterone then his body will stop making it worse than he his now. He needs to kick start his levels naturally with supplements. Many men have this problem. It is way more common than you think. My husband went through it too, which is how i know this. The way to know without a doubt is if your husband is not waking up in the morning with wood then his levels are low. Men should wake up with it hard every morning, it is natural and has nothing to do with sex. If so get him a supplement and within 2 weeks it will be fixed in 5 weeks he should be like he's 20 years old again. In the meantime why don't you ask him for oral. That doesn't require him to be hard but is still a very intimate thing you can do together.
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Thanks for the info he does wake up with a hard so I'm wondering if its low but just not that low what do you think.
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He could always take the supplement and see. There is also another supplement that will help reduce his palactin (not sure if spelled.right) levels. This can also effect him if its not his testosterone it could be that. You can go into any GNC or Complete Nutrition and they will know exactly what you are asking for. Usually you can get a set that he will take morning and night. Morning for testosterone and night for palactin. It helped my husband greatly.
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