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4165464 tn?1384457741

personal question

Hi i have a personal question, my husband says sex is different now when im on top. I can see it in his face hes not enjoying it. He says its bc he doesnt want to hurt me but idk. I just dont want him to idk im really upset about it... any advice out there??
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4591205 tn?1410605174
doggy works well too. doggy and spooning position is all we've done since I was around 20 weeks
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4165464 tn?1384457741
Thank u everyone
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You and your husband just needs to talk and try differ  positions to see what works for youguys but if it doesn't feel right them some one needs to speak up. This is or 4 child and my hubbywas always scared to hurt  but  if it hurts me I tell him right away and we change and  its all good lol. Just be open
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Its hard and I think its difficult for them to get used to the belly. My husband is a trainer and I know he likes a fit body so it kinda makes me worried he doesn't find me attractive. But he's been sweet and trys to tellme im beautiful. My advice would be just to talk to him about it and try to find a position your both ok with.
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Me n my partner have a very high sex drive lol we used to have sex twice a day ....now its so different we still trying but there are not many comfy position really miss him on top n sometimes just put pillow underneath my bum n it works for us even when u on ur side still can use pillows to make u comfy :)
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Pregnancy sex can be awkward, and there is a big mental hurtle for your hubby to get past.  We dont have sex as much while Im pregnant.  We havent in about a week and a half, and wont till after babies born now. I know its hard but try not to take it personally.  And try different positiins, where belly isnt so prominent and in the way works best for us.  
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5628321 tn?1376273593
Try laying on your sides with him behind you. It's more comfy for your growing belly and he can't go as deep so that may help his fears of hurting you. This is one of my hubby and my favorite positions for pregnancy. Hope this helps.
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