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So I'm 16 weeks now, and I had an appointment because since I'm diabetic, they have to monitor my blood sugar so they transfered me to a high risk clinic, and today we couldn't found the baby's heart beat, even tho the dr said that that's normal, still I wanted to hear it because it makes me calm down a little, and I think they gonna put me on more meds because of the blood sugar, and I don't know, it just hit me that maybe I won't be able to have a healthy baby, even tho I don't care, I'm still gonna love my baby no matter what but still, and I keep loosing weight so I don't know how is that my blood sugar is high, and I feel like I'm such a bad person because I can't even take care of myself and how can I take care of a baby
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I know, the dr said that I'm losing weight and that's good because I'm obese but is 10 lbs in a week so they gonna be checking everything now
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I mean I am *Now*
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Don't feel responsible . The same thing happened to me. I am not 33 weeks and my baby is under weight so I have to see a specialist. I only look about 20 weeks is what people tell me. Don't stress about it cause it will only do you more harm.
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