soooo annoyed!!!

[emmaftm]

My fella has got up this morning in a foul mood because sky have cut off our tv. I told him it was either i pay the mortgage or pay the sky..... guess which one won! Maybe if he got off his backside and got a job we could afford to pay both, perhaps the sky being off will mean he will spend more time with his daughter or maybe clean up after his lazy ***...... ive had so many opportunities to leave and now im wondering why i havent taken them!

[KoalsMommy]

My DH stayed at home with DS until he was 3. I worked FT. He was a great SAHD. My family never liked him because they beliece that a man should support his family financially... but it worked for us. I even worked FT before DS was born and put him thru school.
Now he is the bread winner and I'm the SAHM. He's proving to my family and to himself that he's a good provider and a good husband and father. He didn't get a job in the field he went to school for, he actually works in a factory with 2 college degrees...
I love him but there were times when me working and him not drove me up the wall. Especially when I was pregnant during his Summer breaks and he only worked PT thru his school. I could have strangled him. lol.

[Wow_Im_A_Mom]

Lol goodluck

[emmaftm]

I think maybe i was also in a harsh mood yesterday. My fella is nearing the end of a uni course which he took to better his job choices and i chose to support him through it.... of course we didnt know when he started that i would get pregnant (my pill failed and i found out at 18weeks, best thing ever but a big shock lol) my fellas mum spoilt him in that she did everything for him and believes that his gf should also do everything for him..... i grew up where my dad doted on my mum and basically waited on her hand n foot.... its been the source of many arguments!! I do love him n weve been together 13 years, im just hormonal lol hes a brilliant father to our daughter, just cant wait til he gets a decent job lol x

[Wow_Im_A_Mom]

U kno wat u gotta do.
Ya child needs a role model not someone
They gon crack jokes when their older

[AnnieBrooke]

You have a child and he won't get a job?  Hmmm.  In my world, a man who does that (if he can actually get a job, i.e., if he is ablebodied) would be on notice.  Hate a parent who doesn't take responsibility seriously.