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what advice would you give.

I'm nineteen and I'm having my first child. I'm having crazy stupid dreams about miscarriages and my fiancee not wanting me and having a lot of anxiety. I'm due march 29th and I'm 31 weeks today. I love my little boy already but I'm so scared I'm shaking in my sweats ha.
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5891248 tn?1406410864
Slow down take a nice lavender bath with calmimg music you dont want to stress the baby amd take things one step at a time dont rush. Most men go.through that phase just try to relax.
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Also...
I had a dream i pulled a hair out my belly and my baby came out with it..
So silly!
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Hi!! Im 18 and also expecting my first. I am due april 9th and expecting a beautiful baby girl. I am having the same problem! Last night i dreamt my fiance had been having an affair for over a year! I felt so silly when i wakened! This pregnancy has made me very insecure and ita taking me a while to adapt to my body changing.
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I've been having the same dreams i dream that my baby dies that i leak all my fluids and he suffocates in my belly the other day i dreamed that i peed blood then i had huge blood clots coming out and blood and it was my baby those dreams r horrible I'm also due in march but the 26 my third baby first boy! But i never had these dreams with my other pregnacys
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How does your fiancĂ© feel about it? Just take one day at a time otherwise you'll be overwhelmed. I was pregnant at 19 and had my first born at 20. However, I was married 2 years prior to giving birth to my oldest. The vivid dreams are a big thanks to hormones. That's normal.  Try to take a relaxing bath before bed to ease your mind.
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