is my girlfriend pregnant?

[worrywort12]

Okay my girlfriend has not had her period late 3 days but has been having cramps like she is going to start but has not yet so we took a pregnancy test one of those early detection ones by e.p.t i mean it says wait 3 mins but it didn't even take a min to say pregnant but why is she still getting cramps is this normal plus she is tired and nausea but cramp pain is not constant and no bleeding

[worrywort12]

Thank you so much u have been so much help thank you i cant wait to be a daddy its so exciting

[baleighsmom7]

As long as she is not bleeding she is fine.  I still ride fourwheelers and carry my 3 year old all the time and my baby is fine. Also u need to look up miscarriage in first trimester it will tell you nothing the mommy does in the first trimester will cause a miscarriage if its going to happen then its goin to happen. Your body knows when something is terribly wrong with the baby and you will have a natural miscarriage so don't stress about her doing something wrong because there is nothing you can do or not do to prevent a miscarriage in the first trimester

[worrywort12]

Thanks i agree with u she is scared but once she tells her parents i think it would be easier but now iam scared cause she said she pulled a muscle in her stomach she thinks cause she was coaching and she felt a sharp pain when she threw ball and doc on here said if she has any cramping to see her doc which she already was having some cramping but no bleeding so iam scared again

[love_kids]

Really am 20 my husband is 28 first time parents too probably she is scared bc is her first time that how i was now am just excited and cant wait to see my lil one but she just nervouse since is her first time and scared what to expect

[love_kids]

Really am 20 my husband is 28 first time parents too probably she is scared bc is her first time that how i was now am just excited and cant wait to see my lil one but she just nervouse since is her first time and scared what to expect

[worrywort12]

Sorry were she pulled was in her stomach region

[worrywort12]

Okay now iam freaking out we both coach softball for her little sisters 12u team they had a game tonight and i had to work i told her to    becareful i dont think her being prego has quite registered yet lol but she threw a ball are something and she told me she felt a sharp pain like pulling a mucsle iam freaking out especially after talking about how its risky the first 3 months :( dont know what to do she says it feels fine but she has not been doing reasearch like i have

[worrywort12]

Thank u so much

[baleighsmom7]

If she got a positive test then yess she is pregnant you can only get a false positive if your taken fertility durgs my best advice I can give you is wait untill she is 12 or 13 weeks untill y'all tell anyone bc the risk of miscarriage is high untill then and after she hits that point it lowers ALOT but I would just tell them with both of you there they might be mad but they will get over it soon I promise! I was 15 with my first and 18 having my second and with my first everyone was mad but got over in within weeks and with this pregnancy everyone is happy! I wish y'all the best of luck!!

[worrywort12]

*sorry pointers on what to do to keep it from being a miss carriage *

[worrywort12]

iam excited  she is really scared to tell her parents and its making her more nervous i mean iam 27 she is 20  were not kids we can handle this any advice on how to comfort her on that.  And i herd that this period 3 to 4 weeks is a little dangerous is that true and any pointers cause tryed to sched appt but they said to wait tell shes at least 6 weeks so now iam scared

[Rissa14]

She really is pregnant.

[worrywort12]

Thank u ladies so much iam so excited we made a appt the 29th to go see obgyn. but from what i describe chances are she really is pregnant? Cause i just dont want my hopes down plus she has been really tired lately kinda moody lol not with me thow and to confirm so you know she has not bleeded at all not even spoting

[baleighsmom7]

Its normal and probably not implantation bc the egg has to implant befor you can get a positive test I'm guessing she will be about 3 or 4 weks pregnant seeing as how she got a positive test so its probably the uterus stretching to make room for the new baby this is my second pregnancy and I experienced the same thing the only time you should worry is if she starts to bleed or cramps in her second and third trimester. I hope this helps

[Rissa14]

I was having period cramps too before I found out its perfectly normal as long as there is no bleeding. The cramping is from her uterus stretching, congratulations (:

[worrywort12]

Thank you i was scared it could be a tubal pregnancy but thats to soon i would think. And so the feeling could be implantion wow i didn't think like u said for your first one you could feel that thats crazy :) thanks so much i plan on taking her this week i will let you know

[kouklaxo]

If it was positive, its implantation some women dont feel that, i didnt with my first i went through that last week, if it was positive she should make an apointment with her doctor and get an ultrasound.