Okay so I'm a transgender man, on Testosterone for about 9 months but was on a very low dosage (25ML), I switched to a higher dosage (40ML) this past Monday.. but I do still menstruate < i menstruate a lot less now but basically it means I'm still fertile..
Me and my BF had PIV sex on Sunday. We used a condom and he pulled out before he ejaculated, and he ejaculated in the condom. I'm just scared cause I was dryer than usual and he jerked himself off a bit with the condom on so I'm afraid that could have wrecked the condom (the condoms were new and Trojan ones)
The condom looked fine when he pulled out, cause when he ejaculated it didn't go anywhere but the condom.. I'm just REALLY paranoid, and have anxiety.. for example, I have digestive issues but every twitch I feel in my stomach I think is a baby or something (sounds silly but I'm paranoid). By the way is it normal to feel slight cramping in the middle of Your pelvic area? I don't know why but at the moment I have slight discomfort, it wasn't like that this week, just today...
All in all, i just really need someone to ease my mind and tell me it's okay and why I'm not pregnant.