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Early miscarriage ??? :(

So my past 4 online cheapie preg tests showed faint positives n were gradually getting darker n I took one today to see if it would be darker n it was sooooooooo light like barely there... I'm so upset.... I was getting excited n now I feel like crying my eyes out coz I read up about it n it says I'm most likely having an early miscarriage :'( the other 4 tests I took late in the afternoon n they showed positives but with my fmu ones they were sooooooooo faint barely there... I don't understand... I used ovulation tests too coz I heard if I'm preg they would go positive n they did but I haven't tried again coz I'm just upset from seeing that one this morning so if anyone could give me advice would be nice.... Thanks x :(
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Wow your so right !! We shouldn't schedule sex.. We both want this so bad but I think we're forgetting to be partners... We do have plenty of sex sorry.. Tmi haha but I dunno I just can't shake the feeling of wanting to be pregnant it gets so hard when you want something so bad n every month when you see that big negative it hurts... But I kno it will happen when it's my time... Thanks for your advice :) n thank you for the wishes ! :) xx
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Hi. All of us in this community have gone through the same situation, believe me. And nothing anyone can say will make you feel better. But still, please keep in mind that you can't give up. The stress and the depression only makes it harder to conceive. I was so obsessed with this that I'd only have sex with my husband on the ovulation days, the rest of the month I'd be too depressed! It ended up creating problems between us as my husband was depressed too but I was too wound up in my obsession to realize it.
Please stop waiting for your next period. Try to enjoy the sex, enjoy time with your bf and have sex all through the month.

Wish you all the best!
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Yehh I did get a quantitive blood test n I only had 2 hcg in my system so deffs not pregnant... The doc said if I don't get my period in 10 days then come back n he'll repeat the test.. He also said it maybe very early stages of pregnancy n maybe that's what happening... But I don't think so I mean if I only have 2 hcg then im deffs not in any stage of pregnancy lol.. So oh well... Just want AF so show so I can continue on... Thanks for commenting :) xx
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U wld know if u had a miscarriage there wld be bleeding and u wld have had pains. U need to go to the doctors whether or not u think its useless now thts the only way ur gonna find out
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mmmm i was gunna go to the docs on monday but i dont see the point anymore considering 2 tests one that i took with first morning and one in the afternoon (held it in for 4 hours without drinking anything) were both dead set negative... so i dont think theres any point to that now aii.... so gutted... i was so happy to get a bfp n then just get 2 bfn's... so crap :( i mean if i was to be pregnant my tests would have gotten stronger not lighter then turn negative... so i read up about what might be wrong on google n all it basically came up with was either my tests were crap.. (i ruled it out coz i used 3 with water n absolutely no other line came up i also got my bf to do one haha n it was neg) or i got a false positive which apparently is really rare and close to impossible... and lastly an early miscarriage which apparently is really common... like women will be preg and have an early miscarriage and not even know it... it happens in like 30% of women... so yeh... i dunno but im pretty gutted aii... i was just starting to get really excited coz it got darker but then went neg... but oh well i can always keep trying :) xx
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I wish I could be more help...my only suggestion would be to go get blood work done to see what your pregnany hormone levels are..hope it all works out for you.
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Well I've taken 2 more today n their both completely negative.... I hate this s**t so much !!!!!!!!!!! I try so hard arrrrgh.... :(
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