Obsessed

[EmmaWhitney]

I've had 2 miscarriages in the past 5 months and the doctor can't tell me why. Now we're back on Clomid and in the middle of the dreaded 2ww.
The thing is that my boobs are so sore and a feel dreadful! Like a flu coming on or something and the heartburn,  oh god its soooo bad. And getting up to pee in the night, I just don't feel I'm getting enough sleep.
Im 7dpo and really don't want to test until I'm late but I'm becoming obsessed in reading up on miscarriage causes and what I can do/take to stop it.
I know I need to stay calm and see what happens but after my history can anyone give me advice please.

[Aprilmaariie]

Hi Emma, im sorry to hear about your miscarriages! I also went though one in November of 2013. one of the worst things I tell ya! Me and my fiancée have been trying to conceive since. its almost March and im still not pregnant. my advice to you would be, to remain calm and just have fun with sex. Don't try and don't NOT try! its been hard for me too to realize you have to just stay calm and not be obsessed with it and it will  happen when the times is right. In fact I may be pregnant now, and the only thing I did different from the other 2 months is relaxed and had fun with it and not really thought much about it. Good luck to you!

[Bentleysmommy18]

I have 1 son that's 19 months and I'm 15 weeks pregnant with our second child and fertilaid has helped me soooo much with getting pregnant. I took half of a 1 month supply and got pregnant both times!! Goodluck

[EmmaWhitney]

Thanks Ladies.  I must look to see if fertileaid is available here in NZ.
Clomis does seem to be working because I am becoming pregnant but miscarrying. I've read about dropping in progesterone n women qith PCOS when pregnant and we think it may be that but it's a waiting game now. This 2ww is a killer!  

[BellaRay29]

You should try fertileaid. They are the best. They are all natural herb and completely safel pills you can take to help get you pregnant. Clomid can take forever just to work. Fertileaid takes just 1-3 months. I did lots of research on it before taking it and there were so many good reviews. From my experience it actually worked in just over a month. I'm 10 weeks preg. With the help of fertileaid. You should look it up and read about it. I guarantee you won't be disappointed. Good luck!

[Luciee_clarke]

I miscarried in October 2012 and I was the same I wanted to know why and how it happened but doctors and the hospital were crap for info so I read up about it loads making myself go crazy with all different reasons why it is hard to cope but I found by not reading about it going out and doing things to distract yourself helps I got a new job and after a year I could speak to family about it without wanting to cry I was trying so hard in the first couple of months ttc again and when I wasn't I was devastated but try to just get on with it and when it happens it happens good luck xx