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What is the risk of pregnancy whilst dry-humping?

Hello!

A while ago I had so-called dry sex with my girlfriend. The girl was naked but I had cotton boxers on. After grinding I noticed some shiny stain inside boxers and a bit of sticky, greyish and a bit cloudy fluid on the tip of penis. I have heard that that might be precum, however, I have never encountered with something like that by myself despite I am 20 Y/O.

Is it possible that I might have ejaculated whithout knowing? Risk of pregnancy? How precum looks alike?
PS. GF took emergency contraceptiton after 34 h. And her periods ended few days before aforementioned event.
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973741 tn?1342342773
Hi,  we try not to use words that our web site doesn't accept (the stars above).  Absolutely NO chance of impregnating a woman through boxer shorts.  Won't happen.  Sperm is smart but not smart enough to 'know' where to go.  Sperm goes to the egg because it is directed that way.  The egg isn't a beacon calling it's name.  So, if the sperm is outside the vagina, it isn't going into it.  And The same can be said for sperm inside pants. It doesn't get out and swim up someone's vagina.  Just doesn't happen so do not worry about this.  However, if you are going to get more sexual, buy some condoms just in case.  good luck
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Thank you!

I am still anxious because girl's period might be late for 1-2 days. It was said that the delay might have occurred due to Emergency contraception that was taken 36 h later.

However, I would like to clarify for future reference - could someone describe how preejaculate looks alike? Is it always clear, silky fluid?
And what about fact that boxers were soaked with vaginal fluids, does friction whilst grinding could somehow allow semen to go further? Fabric has relatively huge pores.
Furthermore, I massaged girls vagina, and put fingers a bit deeper. Could I transfer swimmers form outside in?
973741 tn?1342342773
Hi there. There is NO risk of pregnancy from dry humping.  A penis must be IN your vagina for pregnancy.  good luck
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But what if ejaculation happened without notice? I noticed a relatively small amount of sperm-looking fluid inside the boxers. In your opinion - could sperm get through thin cotton layer into vagina? (I have read a lot of stories, however, there is no certainty - one says that it is impossible, one - there is moderate risk)
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Could you answer to previous question, please?

Girl took a pregnancy test, because period is a week due. Negative. Is a false-negative?
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I did not ejaculate, I am pretty sure of that.
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Thanks for quick responses.

Yet, another question raises - what was the grayish, a bit cloudy fluid on the tip of penis?
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973741 tn?1342342773
Hi.  Well, absolutely.  Emergency contraception DOES delay a period.  It's a big dose of hormones and it messes up a woman's cycle.

You really can't see pre ejaculate.  You will never notice you are releasing it.  Just know it happens and is there.  Every time you have intercourse.

But it is only intercourse that results in pregnancy. Humping and fingering absolutely DO NOT cause pregnancy. good luck
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You can *** it happens and it stayed in your boxers and your **** didn't go inside her vagina that's the only way to get a girl pregnant
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