bf gone crazy!?!

[monkeygirl1988]

So i go to the doctor tomorrow morning to see if i am possibly pregnant. My bf and I were not trying. I already have to wonderful boys 7 and 4 and not fully ready for another. But if I am I will love that baby as much as I love my other childern. I have been having all the symptoms of pregnancy. The boob thing....omg that is killing me. Anyways...I told my bf I thought I was and all 4 test came out negative (first pregnancy i took 14 and they all came out negative until last one said positive...thats why i'm freaking cause I dont know if I should believe it with all these problems i'm having). He went from not saying anything to 10 mins later to grabbing my face sweet like, kissed my forehead and asked what he was suppose to do....Then went back to not saying a word....to saying we can handle this and 10 mins later he says how are we suppose to handle this....to dont worry so much no matter what happens we will get through this and we will be great parents and you are already an amazing mother.......WTF.....I thought I was having major moods swings. Any one else have this problem???

[remar]

I don't think it is normal at all for the fathers to be treating either one of you like this. If they don't want a baby why are they not doing something about it? They could put on a condom.
I do agree that some fathers can have pregnancy like symptoms but there is no reason at all for them to be mean.

[nichole75315]

LOL.  YES!  My hubby is the worst - honestly lol.  I have 3 young children and I'm pregnant with his first.  He's so bad about it too - as I'm 38 weeks.  He tries to convince me everything is going to be perfect then five minutes later says, "If my sons ugly I'm going to bash your face in every day for the rest of our lives."  I just smile and nod as if he actually makes sense on some planet.  They are just overwhelmed with confusion of emotions and whatever else you want to blame it on lol.  My hubby eats worse, talks worse, and gets seriously emotionally twisted a lot lately.  It's normal from what I hear.  I've heard men sometimes look more pregnant then us too! haha!  I wish you the best!!