to everyone whos af has disappeared!!!

[kandjmom]

hey I am now 16 days late. I'm still getting negative pregnancy test results. I'm not sure when I ovulated. I came off of birth control in December. so that made my cycle irregular. if I spelt that right... so here's what I'm going to do, I'm going to keep testing every week until I get a positive pregnancy test or my AF. also I have all the symptoms of being pregnant, like lower back pain. thick white discharge, but now its become more runny and white. sorry too much information. and my boobs are sore but not too sore. also I'm having headaches but not everyday. I am so confused right now. where has my AF gone? I'm currently trying to conceive. I wish I would either get my AF or get a positive result. I am so freaking frustrated...
:-(

[kandjmom]

I made an appt. But they cant see me until may.7th.

[Jrlaturi]

I'm going thru that right now too....around 18 days late. Took a test yesterday (my birthday-would have been a great present) but negative. I have been under lots of stress lately-lots of problems at work and on tip of it my mother-in-law is about to die from cancer. I've pretty much accepted that I'm not pregnant, but I wish I would get AF so I know for sure.

[kandjmom]

Dang alot of people are having this problem. Maybe it is normal to skip a cycle.

[MrsShockalu]

I'm 33 days late and in the same boat...

[JessRae]

Good luck :-) I hope you get an answer soon

[kandjmom]

yeah I'm going to first thing in the morning.

[JessRae]

Its possible. But I would really book an appt with your gp or gyno and see what they have to say.

[kandjmom]

So if I didnt ovulate. Thats why no period?

[JessRae]

There is always a chance that you won't ovulate every month. Which can make things super frustrating. And you know drs love to chalk it up to stress but waiting for it to come if its already possibly ruled out you're not pregnant is so much more stressful!

[momoftwoandonetobe]

It usually take about 4 weeks before u get a positive result on a pregnacy test

[kandjmom]

still not here. this is day 20. I was talking to my mom and she said something about solid periods. she said that women actually can miss their cycle, and not have a period for a whole month. but she is got me so confused. more than I already was...lol..

[JessRae]

The more I've talked to people and with how I am feeling today we believe it was an early miscarriage. I hope you get some answers soon!!

[kandjmom]

this is starting to really bother me...
I just wish someone could tell me the answer.

[kandjmom]

well I'm glad you found out what was happening with you. I hope it was not an early miscarriage. I'm sorry to hear about that. but yeah I'll let you know what's happening with me. I don't think I'm pregnant. I'm just wondering why I have not started my cycle yet. monday I'm going to make an OBGYN appointment. hopefully they can get me in next week sometime.

[JessRae]

Well just an update, dr says I am not pregnant. What ovary cyst I have is smaller. And with tge bleeding I have been having she is wondering if it wasn't a m/c. I am waiting to see my dr on wed after work. We may be looking at takinh something to trigger the bleeding to fully shed and start getting things back on track.

So tonight is a pamper myselg night, and I will alsobe getting myself back on track with working out and feeling better.

Good luck to you, I hope you can figure out what is going on soon

[JessRae]

As far as I know I have never been pregnant. I am losing my mind. This constant spotting is driving me batty. I don't have cramping other than achy lower pelvic/hip or adhesion pain on round ligament. I've given up thinking I may be pregnant and just want to know what os wrong with me. I feel like I'm crazy.

[kandjmom]

Oh. I just dont understand what's going on with me. I've been pregnant 4 times. I only had two of them. and I've had two miscarriages. but I don't remember when I was taking the pregnancy test, you know I don't remember when I actually got a positive result. with my first 1,  i think I was almost 7 weeks before I got a positive. but I was 18. that's why I'm so lost right now

[JessRae]

Yeah they did. That test was neg as well but the dr said he wasn't going to rule out pregnancy until ultrasound results because I have fam history of really low hormone

[kandjmom]

Me either... did they give you a blood test?

[JessRae]

Had my ultrasound today, they of course can't tell me anything so I have to wait to see. I had more light bleeding this morning and it was gone by afternoon. I don't know what to think of any of this.

[kandjmom]

Im so lost. Well thats not even the word for it....

[Mamamia8889]

@Yana dang sorry abt that...i havent had my period since Mar 1st...i have a few cramps with whitish/yellowish discharge...back aches...idk whats goin on

[Yana162612]

Don't want scare anybody , but if you missing your period that long, you have to go check with your Doc, I had the same thing at December last year, I didn't know that I was 8 weeks pregnant . Ultrasound was bad! Baby didn't have a heartbeat !!! That's why my test didn't show anything

[JessRae]

Fingers crossed for you! I have yet to have a true period and I've spotted/lightly bled off and on since feb. The signs are there. Ultrasound today. Trying to think positive.