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1278457 tn?1271396433

Could he be the father???

I was wondering can someboby help me?...OK..I must admit I truly don't want it to be his child because we was in a relationship for 7 years and was plannin on gettin married...I Love him with all my heart but I'm scared that I can't handle him havin a child by someone he cheated wit..But I love him.....So here We Go...He cheated on me on Feb 19th...The due date is Nov 22nd but as of today April 22nd she should be 9 weeks and 4 days ...How likely  is it that he's the father? I'm not sure it u need to know this but on April 6 she had an ultrsound done and it told her that she was 7 weeks and 2 days...So by using the due date calculator online its like she had a period on Feb 15th...If u can help i would really appreciate it.
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All the people who tell women to leave the cheaters.. its easier said than done!!  You have to make the decision on your own, when you just can't do it anymore, or if you spend all the time your with him thinking about him with someone else, I've been there girl!!!  Found out my boyfriend of 3 yrs was a father of 3 a week before I was giving birth to our "1st child"... they r from a precvious relationship but its still a hugeeee lie and I was decieved n it hurts to know.. and its ****** up he hasn't been there for those kids the entire time he's been with me... ughhh lol good luck girl
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1278457 tn?1271396433
That I do understand but I understand that  ppl makes mistakes too...So i've been fightin for an answer because I do love him and he has been a wonderful bf. I've really been thinking about giving him a second chance and layin down the rules and definitely makin it clear that if it every happen again Im not gonna ask who,when,where, how or why, I'm just gonna give him my *** to kiss. But I'm really scared cause this hurt and I don't wanna go through it again...So IDK We all make mistakes
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1008869 tn?1283961257
Sorry you are going through this but the main concern and issue here is "Do you really want to be with a guy who does this"...I would have run the other way REAL fast and let the door hit his azz on the way out.

Him and baby mama can have a great life...
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1278457 tn?1271396433
Thanks SO much...Im trying to be strong, but my heart hurts so much...So do think I should get him to ask her when was her LMP?
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1267199 tn?1273233069
I am so sorry that you are in this situation, this can't be very nice for you to be dealing with.

Obviously, you don't know the ins and outs of her cycle but generally, based on the information you have put above, the first day of LMP would have been 15th February and with a due date of 22nd November that means conception would have been approximately 1st March (based on a 28 day cycle). On a 28 day cycle, conception on 19th February would mean EDD of 12th November.

Sperm can survive for a few days so based on the average cycle etc I would say it is of course possible but it is unlikely based on the dates.

Best of luck hun

Jo
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