Ughhh... This is definitely me venting so you don't have to read it I just really needed to get it out! I love my mom* but~
My whole pregnancy my mom thought she should be a part of everything. I can't believe I had to tell her that the "father of my child" had to be the one in the US room when we found out the gender. As of yesterday I've told her 5 times that she will not be in the room during birth. She is going to push me to the point of being rude and I don't want to go there. She wanted to buy me a dresser to put next to the crib so I went shopping with her last weekend and the whole time she kept talking about how this summer "we" can get the nursery set up and. She kept making it sound like it was her responsibility. And throughout the pregnancy she would text me all the time saying "I'm going to come over and we can work on his room." I told her over and over I already have a plan for it but and the response I get "okay sweety I just thought we could help." I would understand that the first time, but after how many times are you going to get it, his room is done.
And i can't talk to her about my frustrations because if you point anything out to this woman she may speak words of understanding but the attitude that goes with it is very rude, like haha you don't know what your taking about, or you just don't know yet you'll learn. Very cocky, and doesn't give up.
I just know I'm going to have problems with her when it's time to deliver and she doesn't want to leave the room and she is going to cause me to yell at her, and then she's going to make a seen about how she just wants to be close to her daughter's... Blah blah. Because the thing is we are very close, but having her control me until I'm 80 is not how I see it. And I sure as he** will not let her control the one thing in the world I finally have that is mine to love, raise, cherish, and care for.
I am so sorry I just really needed to get this out before I deal with her today.