My fiance is was told to leave on thur so he is at hismums. The whole will be home at nine and not drinking but cones homes at half eleven drunk thing. So another arguargument and hes been at his mumsm evrything is getting to me im like a crazy person. I am loaded with the flu as well and my daughter has started behaving badly...think cos babys coming. So your not the only one. They dont undrstand how hard this is and how we would like a drink but we cant and I had to spend nine hours gutting my house other day cos he is lazy also. I was in agony after it.hes coming home to talk today as this isnt ideal sitiuaton...but iv enjoyed the peace and a tidy home! Men...!!!
^^ hahaha sometimes I literally feel like my husband would actually ask for me to come wipe his ***. He used to spoil me sooo much and do everything for me but he started a new job and works really hard now and thinks im his maid. It is my fault too, I wanted to spoil him for once and he got used to it. Now I get sarcasm just asking for a glass of water, and a massage...push not worth it. It is seriously driving me nuts.
I have to tell my husband 30 times before he does what I ask him to do. He works all day but I take care of 3 kids which is a job in itself. I actually feel like I am already at 4 kids because he doesn't clean up after himself or anything. I might as well wipe his butt for him. Hormones right? Lol I love him to pieces though. I just need a little help, I mean I am carrying a bowling ball.
We've been having adult conversations for MONTHS. It goes in one ear and out the other he says he'll do something and has no intentions of doing anything. He hasn't done a chore since at least august. There is no other way to put it
Urghhhh stupid phone
*gets up and SAYS
*go SIT down
*SAYING something rude or sarcastic
I know exactly how you feel! The thought of spending the day with family for Easter tomorrow is already making me mad and not want to go, and even though my husband does tons around the house to help out I still find reasons to snap and freak out at him. I've been trying not to be too bossy and ask him to do too much more than he already does and I've been trying not to snap as much but he's a procrastinator so I'll ask him to do something, wait, ask him again and if he doesn't I'll just get up and do it myself without saying anything. Then when he sees me doing it he gets up and sits "oh I was gonna do that for you go for down I'll do it" and then I usually end up flipping out our dating something rude or sarcastic lol
Girl calm down I understand 100%. I am very short w my husband all the time. I can truly say I'm a mega bi+ch to everyone. I don't mean to be and I can't help the mood swings. But you need to calm down and just tell him you are fiscally and emotionally done and he needs to step up and help around the house. If he doesn't leave the sh!t in the floor and go to bed. Don't worry about it maybe he will get the point of you being done. Your the one doing all the work, carrying a baby is like working 24/7. My husband and I had this talk 2 months ago.he now takes great care of me. A little growing up chat helps. Just try to stay calm and strong. The stress isn't good on you or your baby. Venting does release some tension. Good luck and your baby will be here in no time. :)