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Tired of over opinionated people! This rant is long!!! Lol

I see sooooo many woman putting other woman down on this board & it's making the fun of what this forum was supposed to be not so much anymore! Who cares if a woman is wondering why she hasn't dilated, or when their baby may come. Who cares if she wants everything to come on already... They're anxious! They have that right as an expecting mother, they should be! We get it... Some of ur pregnancy are beautiful experiences or ur amazing & can do everything without complaining, kuddos!! Others like to express their feelings or compare things with others moms who are at the same stage of pregnancy Because they know those woman will understand & not judge, at least some of them won't judge. Each pregnancy is different, while symptoms are similar they believe it or not, CAN be different. Allow people to use this forum for the support or excitement they were getting out of it instead of being rude because you either don't know the situation of why they're in a hurry, or want/need induction or because u believe it should be a different way. Go that route with your own pregnancy then, that's why it's YOURS.. Ever heard to each their own?? Sheesh! Congrats to all the mommies to be! Even the rude or over opinionated ones! Rant over!
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Bundle* lol
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Exactly! I posted something about dilating and a lot of women judged me! What's so wrong about being excited for your bubke of joy! To each their own! Amen!
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That's what I think aggravated me the most, no one on this app should be embarrassed or ashamed of a question or anything they share, the particular post of referencing the girl posting the comment seemed very sweet and just curious & here comes some over opinionated hag just flat out being disrespectful. Blame it on my hormones but I just got pissed. As most of u ladies have said, I look at the title of the post, if I'm not interested I keep on truckin. But I would never make someone insecure for asking something this app was made and created for. To each their own. Thanks for seeing that point ladies. We're all here to support one another.
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Exactly. No one is obligated to comment on every post. So do as said above, if you don't agree or it irritates you, move on. But remember, it's a PREGNANCY forum. And part of pregnancy is dilation and cervix and excitement! There no reason anyone should be ashamed of posting questions or comments about it :)
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Yup. Same here. If I don't agree, or understand, I move on to the next post. I may try to explain why I believe something but still try to be polite.
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I agree with you! I have had enough of non-pregnant people hurting me (not willingly, but with some sympathy they wouldn't...). Here I come for support. I myself wouldn't bring anyone down for having different views. If I don't agree I just shut up and go find another topic to discuss.
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10033740 tn?1458081962
Well said! I will never understand why ppl would get on someone else's post being negative and forcing their rude opinions on others.
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Amen!
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10219953 tn?1426171839
Iv been on that end of things with people being negative  but what works  for one doesn't mean it's for everyone. And if you have nothing nice or positive to say dont say anything  at all.
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Yup... Yours was so well put I had to comment on it! Lol Woman = drama (by nature) lol Pregnant woman = war zone!!
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I just post a similar post. Wow. Thought I was the only one who noticed how nasty some of these women have become.
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