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10219953 tn?1426171839

list you most hated comments

Hey we've heard lots what's been some of the comments that have pissed you off or just annoyed you?

"OH YOUR PREGNANT? I COULDN'T TELL....OH YOUR IN YOUR THIRD TRIMESTER ALREADY?"
My next door neighbor...it's been a while now....thanks now I feel like I must just look like fat bloated hippo waddling around..... ( I'm a size xl/18 in pants before baby #3 so not to offend.)
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1) I don't think you'll make it to April...2) There may be twins, the second baby could hide... 3) You're eating again... 4) Why don't you just sit down and be pregnant??? 5) Why are you crying, it's not that serious... 6) I thought you couldn't eat/drink that... Like I don't need to be scared of preterm labor, technology has updated since the 70's, I'm pregnant not cripple, I'm a ball of emotions so everything is that serious and I can occasionally have a burger or some dang  soda.
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I just cant deal with the name calling aww your so cute prego,aww fatty,biggy,fat ***,damn you gain weight,damn you eating again,like if i slap the dog s*** out of you would that make you shut up lol its so irritating and thats coming from all family and friends
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You have been pregnant forever..when are you due??

Gosh I don't know how people keep having kids every few years..(wow!)
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Fil your getting fat aren't you. Iv put on 5 kg but i have a huge baby bump everyone thinks I'm having multiples of some kind  
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I got a new one.

"When are you going to pop?"
"April."
"Oh...triplets?"
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10746697 tn?1426152256
"Don't forget you got another one coming in a few months "...whenever I mention my 10 month old getting into everything. I'm due in April,4 days before he turns one.
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I was heavy set to begin w so almost everyday from SOMEONE get "how's the baby?" Im like "I'm not due till April 20th." Oh I thought u had her already. Really? U can't tell I'm pregnant. Not just that but the majority are co workers so I'm thinking have u seen me leave for maternity leave?

Also today I went to Target to get some curtains for her nursery, the cashier said, "Awe are u redoing your girls room?" I said nope and patted my stomach, she said "OMG I couldn't even tell u were pregnant!? Your not evening showing?" I was like well yea I'm 7 months pregnant, and held back tears! Really?? I know I'm bigger but the fact that people can't tell at all, really *****!!!! Especially when I feel huge and pregnant! :(
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My mom keeps laughing at the way my closer fit because I have a big belly. Thanks mom. Oh and I went to my Dr appointment today and some pervert was checking me out. I wanted to be like "do you see I'm fat and pregnant???" And my husband was with me.
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One of my clients at work asked me "why can't you drink" well b.c I'm pregnant, have you not noticed this big belly that is growing when I see you every single wk? "Ohhh I didn't know, I thought you were just over weight, and if you were well that's ok! I know plenty of overweight ppl"
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My mother in law asked my husband if he was disappointed! We have a boy and a girl with another girl on the way. When she found out it was a girl she just looked like someone had kicked her.
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"You crazy to be starting all over, and than with twins. Girl better you than me". Really?? Well I feel blessed because God know how much I wanted to have kids...my two kids are thrilled and excited...people can be ***** sometimes.
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I AM having twins & am a FTM. I'm panicked enough and people keep making comments like, "better you than me." I even had one guy tell me he was sorry.

Oh and then they try to give me all this advice. Ugh. I'm sorry but regular heartburn remedies don't work when you have a twin physically squishing acid or of your stomach. It's mechanical. Delivery will be the only thing that fixes it. Why do people argue with me? They're not helping!
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11125296 tn?1421386502
"Girl you is too small to be carrying that big baby bump around". "You sure its not painful" "Why do you keep having babies?" " I thought you said you was done after your first one" " You pregnant again?" " Didn't you just have a baby" When are you gone stop having babies?"  The list goes on and on and on....
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Mine is just people touching my belly. If you didn't help me make it....then don't touch it.

And me being bigger to begin with my mom always has some snide comments to make. She wonders why when she says something she knows will make me mad that I won't talk to her for a bit.
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10069934 tn?1408164172
"it looks like your body was made to handle having babies well".
And when I was a teenager, my grandfather told me that I have great birthing hips... Thanks grandpa.
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"You're still pregnant????" Yes a*****e. And this is the worst one: "Are you sure it's a girl, because it looks weird. It's too high. I'm sure you're having a boy". Really. Well, there goes my trust in ultrasound. And doctors.
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10219953 tn?1426171839
Why don't people not get that the number 1 rule of talking,dealing or just commenting about a pregnant woman  is NEVER SAY ANYTHING  ABOUT A PREGNANT WOMAN'S WEIGHT...
Followed by DO NOT COMMENT ON WHAT A PREGNANT WOMAN IS EATING OR DRINKING
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"When are you due?"
"April."
"Wow are you having twins?"
....  :/
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"That cheeseburger is why you're fat."
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My husband calls me shamu .-. It pisses me off so bad..
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My husbands friend called his wife big swoll the entire time she was prego!
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31wks..."how much weight have you gained?" Exactly 20lbs "well you really need to be careful not to gain more, you don't want to struggle to lose it, you of all ppl know how difficult it is to lose weight when you're heavy"
From my grandmother tonight over the phone...I love her, but...
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"Hmmm... are you sure you should be eating that???"

"Isn't that bad for the baby?"

"Oh! I would NEVER do that if I were pregnant!"

"Aren't you DONE having kids by now!?"

"Oh, I could NEVER have a home-birth, I'd be too afraid of hurting my baby!"
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10219953 tn?1426171839
These are great!
When I was pregnant with baby #2 I got told my my bosses wife "are you really gonna eat that...your gonna end up like fatty after you have the baby"
OH I remeber I went off on her and even left early that day and cried at work.... (after I had him I lost weight  I was retaining alot of water with that pregnancy)
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